How to buy lingerie for your Girlfriend/Wife

Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been with your girl for a while, buying her nice underwear is an excellent way to keep the attraction alive. Plus, beautiful lingerie is up there with spa days and Chanel nail polish as fool-proof she-will-love-them-every time presents…if done right,that is.
Women’s underwear is oftentimes a “no-man’s land,” riddled with cheap diamantes and itchy synthetic gussets, so if you can get the subtle art of the matching set down, there are many, many rewards for those brave enough to try.
Our “brief” pointers will help you navigate the lingerie section and possibly emerge as the Patron Saint of Panties (a moniker not to be uttered in public).

What You Want Vs. What She Wants

There are one or two brands of lingerie who have carved a niche as “women’s lingerie men can buy.” However, most of this stuff will make your girlfriend feel too skinny, too fat, halfway between a discount stripper-gram and a badly wrapped Christmas present.
Sure, you are made to feel like you are welcome in those stores, but there’s a big difference between underwear men find sexy and underwear that women find sexy.
Women are admittedly complicated, they can tell precisely what you bought for them, and what you really just bought for yourself, and guess which one she’s going to appreciate more? Sacrifice reaps its own rewards my friend. 

You Get What You Pay For

Unfortunately, lingerie is like jewelry in that without exception, the pricier it is, the better. Women are not materialistic, it’s just that unfortunately most of them have a lot of garbage body issues that can be triggered by crappy cuts and cheap materials.
On the other hand, super high-end women’s lingerie has a magical effect on the feminine silhouette, kind of like beer goggles but classier. It will make your girl look shapely, proportionate, supported and like the very sexiest version of herself. And because that makes her feel really good, soon you’ll understand the true meaning of “sexy underwear.”

The 3-to-1 Ratio

Unlike the inside out forwards/back wards rule that gives men up to four wears before they wash their underwear (or so we heard), women rotate theirs on a daily basis. On the other hand, bras get a few more wears.
To make a set last and to look like The Most Insightful Man In The World, buy her three matching pairs of panties for every bra. This isn’t more ‘Sensitive New Age Guy’ than remembering her mum’s birthday, but is definitely more likely to get you laid.

Ask the Experts

No one thinks you look like a pervert shopping for women’s underwear. If anything, you’ll look all sensitive and switched-on and emotionally sophisticated.
Ask the salesperson for help, she has dealt with guys in your situation before and is another lifeline in your quest to buy something your girl will really love, which you will then of course love for altogether different reasons.

Figure Out What Fits

How? By looking at the size tags on her lingerie before you go. For her bra size, you will need a number and a letter: The number for her size around the chest (it should be about the same as her t-shirt size) and the letter for her actual breast/”cup” size.
Thankfully, women’s underwear sizing actually has some coherence in between brands, so if she’s a size 12 in the butt and a 10B in the cup, that’s all you need to look for, no holding it up and squinting required.

Pick Based On Her Personality

The trickiest part is choosing a style that you are both going to find attractive. Again, this is where high-end stores will increase your success rate because most of their stuff is catnip to females.
You still have to put some thought into your girls’ personal style when choosing though. If she’s a girly-girl, stick with the bows, frills and polka dots kind of stuff. If she’s an alternative kind of girl, take some cues from the “boudoir”-style choices of burlesque dancer Dita Von Teese. If she’s the dark, mysterious type, try some secret-agent style garters and corsets in black lace.
Most people look at clothes in stores the same as they already have, so if you know she has a favorite, you can always use this style as a guide to choose a similar design and play it on the safe side.

Do’s & Don’ts

Here are some tips only a woman can tell you:

• Don’t buy a big girl a tiny thong.
• Check out the negligees while you’re there.
• Don’t buy anything with cheeky slogans printed on them.
• Anything with bells or ornaments or “costume” lingerie as it’s called, is incredibly impractical for daily wear: buy at your own risk.
• Do take stores up on any offers of free gift-wrapping.
• Don’t buy anything that doesn’t have a cotton gusset (you don’t want to know why).
• Do ask for advice from the saleswomen (we already said this but really, it’s iron-clad).

Keep The Receipt

This one should be obvious. ‘Cause it is such an intimate item, there’s always the chance that it might not fit, and don’t be offended if she just plain doesn’t like it.
You should still get brownie points for making the effort (if you don’t, perhaps you should find someone else to buy lingerie for), and when she goes to exchange it, you get a first-hand opportunity to see what she would pick for herself.

Summary

While buying lingerie for your girlfriend has bonus points for you, to be effective, it really needs to be about your girl. Think of it as, by buying them for her, you’ll effectively be buying them for yourself, if that’s any help. So be sensitive to what your girl already likes, get her size right and stick to the nice stuff.
Most of all, your most fail-proof rule of thumb should be to choose something as beautiful as she is, then you’ll most likely be handsomely rewarded.

 

Look Hot and Sexy in your Bikini

Sexy and hot undergarments like bikinis do play a key role in leading a successful love making activity. There are different ways in which you can experiment with your bikini to look hot and sexy. Unlike the hot models and sexy celebrities are seen flaunting with hot bikinis, you too can appear the same by trying a couple of things in your bikinis. The following are some of the ways to get going with your bikinis.

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Playing with bright colors

If you are over the beaches or at some incredible pool of any of the extravagant hotels or resorts, you can certainly think of wearing some of the bright color bikini and simply flaunt with the things you have got. The bright color bikini top under your bra inside your utter white T-shirt could really work wonder in any of your weekend chores. It simply counts when you move around this way, lots of eyes would be following you in your bright color bikinis. You can certainly think of playing with your guy by calling him for swimming, but the moment he joins you at your place, simply have your bikini, and try covering up with hat with several flip flops taking him inside.

Try something creative on a lazy Sunday

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Weekends could be lazy, where you follow your own schedule. At such junctures, you often have lazy Sundays especially the afternoon time. However, you can think of doing something interesting with your bikinis and thus knocking out the boredom. Over any Sunday afternoon, think of preparing some burgers for your man by wearing some hot bikini. The blend of a burger with half nakedness while you work with the grill would certainly blow away his mind without fail.

Lining up bikinis creatively

Another way you can experiment with your bikinis is by lining up this piece of clothes. When you line up your bikinis, just tease out your black or golden hair and set free your innermost body part unlike any celebrity model to catch the eye of your man at home. You can even think of throwing away some stilettos and see how your guy reacts. Adding up some other creative ways too can shock your partner with glee and utter joy.

Blow up your boyfriend

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If you are interested in giving a good surprise or nice blow to your boyfriend using your bikinis, try this idea. Simply untie your bikini top to make your back naked, come closer to your mirror and simply catch a hot picture using your cell phone camera having a message- ‘I am dying to have some sunscreen support or a massage, are you interested?’ Now, just text this hot picture to your boyfriend and you simply wait to see him dropping in next 15 minutes at your place.

At any super hot day

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Bikinis are perfect resort for you to have fun when you have some hot days around. If you want to grab your guy’s complete attention, consider getting some ice cubes and simply allow them to slip over both the cups of your bikini top. With this, you get a cooling sensation inside your body along with beating the heat of a terrible day. Guess what, you have your guy around enjoying this hot scene in your bikinis.

Wrapping up

Bikinis are the great piece of clothes. By trying these ideas you can certainly enjoy playing and experimenting using your bikinis and even find your guy around pampering you.

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COMPETITION TIME!

Who would like to win this beautiful Nya bikini??
All you need to do is submit a picture of yourself in any swimwear and send it to admin@nyalingerie.com.
The winner will also be the face of our Social Media Sites.
We are looking for vibrant, colourful and funky pictures.

ALL ENTRIES NEED TO BE SUBMITTED BY 30TH APRIL
WINNER WILL BE NOTIFIED BY 5TH MAY.
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Sexy and chic every day lingerie

Nya Lingerie offer a selection of elegant, sexy and chic every day lingerie.
 Browse through our collection of luxury French lingerie brands and create your own luxury lingerie set from our gorgeous selection. Browse Now

Pull up a chair, have a browse through:

  Ursula- Elegant, chic lingerie.
 Seductive lingerie gift she'll love to wear.

 Fall head over heels for this fun, sexy Gracya Concha Rouge Set

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Gracya Isabella Rouge Cami Set - Take time to consider this elegant and refined luxury lingerie

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 Guys, your lady will love to receive well made, sexy, elegant and chic lingerie, especially if they know you have taken the time to consider what she'd like and get her size right.

 

Lingerie Can Make Your Sex Life Better!

  Lingerie Can Make Your Sex Life Better!

It’s the ultimate gift that keeps on giving to you and your man! Whether its on you or your bedroom floor, these smokin’ hot numbers will be sure to amp up your sexy time and help you feel beautiful-you just have to find the right fit for you.

 This Black Peticoat Set is sexy without being trashy.

 








Strappy Set leaves just enough for the eyes and will make the twins look fantastic, perfect for the luckily endowed lady!

 the way you get ready for spending cozy time together, since you are in the privacy of your home. Sexy lingerie will definitely pep up the spirits of your partner and also will give you an opportunity to ........

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 Who would like to win this beautiful Nya bikini??
All you need to do is submit a picture of yourself in any swimwear and send it to admin@nyalingerie.com.
The winner will also be the face of our Social Media Sites.
We are looking for vibrant, colourful and funky pictures.

ALL ENTRIES NEED TO BE SUBMITTED BY 30TH APRIL
WINNER WILL BE NOTIFIED BY 5TH MAY.
PLEASE NOTE: ALL ENTRANTS MUST BE 18 OR OVER

COMPETITION TIME!

COMPETITION TIME!

Who would like to win this beautiful Nya bikini??
All you need to do is submit a picture of yourself in any swimwear and send it to admin@nyalingerie.com.
The winner will also be the face of our Social Media Sites.
We are looking for vibrant, colourful and funky pictures.

ALL ENTRIES NEED TO BE SUBMITTED BY 30TH APRIL
WINNER WILL BE NOTIFIED BY 5TH MAY.
PLEASE NOTE: ALL ENTRANTS MUST BE 18 OR OVER

6 Ways to Tell If Your Bra Fits

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When you wear a bra that fits correctly, it will be comfortable and supportive -- all day long. Plus, you will instantly look better in all your clothes.

Who wouldn't want that?
 But, sometimes it can be hard to tell if a bra fits the way it should.

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Follow these 6 simple steps, and you'll be able to decide if a bra fits -- all you need is a mirror. 

       

 1. Check the Gore

• What's the gore?
  The gore is the center panel of an underwire bra -- the part of the bra that connects the cups in the front, between the breasts. 

 Not all bras have the same type or size gore, and some styles don't have this part at all. But if your bra has an underwire, then the gore will always be the part that's 'center front' -- and it should typically lie flat against your body.

• How to Check the Gore's Fit:
  Move around -- is the gore rising up off your chest?
  This is a common sign of an ill-fitting bra. The gore should stay flat against your sternum, even as you move around, bend over, or lift your arms up over your head.

When the gore doesn't lie flat, the cups may be too small, or the bra style may not be a good fit for your body type.
However, every 'rule' has exceptions.
"Minimizer bra styles tend to not rest against the breastbone, and this is fine,"

 2: Check the Straps

• Do your straps constantly slip off your shoulders?
  Your bra might not be the right style for your body type -- the straps might be too wide-set.
  
  Women who are petite or have narrow shoulders often have this issue, and sometimes can't wear bras with wide-set straps.



• Do your straps feel too tight?
  The straps should fit securely, but not tight -- check for red marks or indentations on your skin.
  
  Your bra's straps are not solely responsible for providing lift and support -- that's a job for the back band and cups. They shouldn't feel uncomfortable, even if you wear a large cup size.

3: Check the Band

• Does the back band ride up your back?
  The band should lie straight against the middle of your back, parallel to the floor.
  "It should lie below your shoulder blades,"If your band is riding up, then the band size may be too big.
• Is the band digging into your skin?
  The band shouldn't feel so tight that it's uncomfortable. If it does, then it's too small.
  It should be snug -- but not tight.
  
  
• Another tip: If a new bra has an adjustable back band with several hooks, it's best if it fits on the tightest hook. You'll have room to adjust it, when it stretches out -- and all bras will eventually stretch due to normal washing and wearing.

4: Examine the Cups

• Are there any bulges?
  Check the top edge of your bra cups for any signs of 'spillage'. Make you sure your chest doesn't 'bubble' over the top edge of the cups.
  
  Check all angles, looking at your side view in a mirror. You shouldn't see any spillage there, either. 
•  What if you're wearing a sexy, revealing demi-cup style bra?
  Bulges are still a no-no!
  
  There's a difference between showing the top of your chest the correct way -- above revealing, demi-style bra cups -- and when your chest is bulging out the wrong way. The top of your chest doesn't need to be completely covered, but it should look flush with the part of your chest that's contained in your bra cups -- not bulging out.
  
  This is a common fit mistake that may be hard to spot at first, but try on different style bras until you know how to spot a bulge.
  
  If you wear a large cup size or have a full figure:
  It may be easier to spot a bulge if you put on a form-fitting T-shirt over the bra you're trying on. You can also feel the top of your T-shirt to make sure your chest -- and the spot where your bra cups end - are a "smooth slope" -- not bumpy and lumpy.
  
  Any bulges or 'spillage' are signs that you need a larger cup size. If that doesn't work, you may need a more full-coverage style, or a bra that's designed for plus-sizes.
  Are there any gaps inside the bra cup?
  Check the part of your bra where the strap attaches to the cup.
  
  If there's any extra room, or any wrinkles on the outside of the cup, then your cup size is too big.

 5: Is the Underwire a Good Match for your Body Type?

• Does the underwire feel comfortable as you move around?
  The underwire should lie flat against your skin, without moving away from your body.
  
  If it doesn't, you may need to try a different brand, bra style, or band size. Underwires are made in different lengths, and each type gives cups a different shape curve, depending on the bra's style and brand.


• Do you feel the wire poking near your underarm?
  "This is a common issue among shorter women, because the wire is too long for your body type," A smaller cup size, or smaller cup style, such as a demi-cup, will have a shorter wire and may fit better.

 6: Check the Overall Look

• Does your chest look like it's pushed too close together -- or too far apart?
  Your band size may be wrong, or the bra style isn't right for your body type.


• Is your bra forcing your chest to extend beyond the sides of your torso?
  This is a common fit mistake, which causes many women to look top-heavy.
  
  Check a mirror from all angles to make sure your chest is in line with the sides of your body. Your chest should only extend out in front of your torso, not from the sides.
  
  If you realize you have this issue, you'll be amazed at how much thinner you'll look the second you find a bra that fits better. (Check yourself out in a form-fitting T-shirt -- it'll be easier to notice the difference.)

  

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The Bottom Line

Now that you know some of the tips and tricks the experts use to assess a bra's fit, bra shopping will undoubtedly be less stressful -- and more fun.

Just remember -- don't ever trust the size on a tag, and don't settle for anything less than a perfect fit.

 

Red Lingerie

Itʼs pretty amazing how something as simple as a color can make us feel. In fact thereʼs even a name for studying the science of color–chromatics. It basically studies the effects of how our brains interpret the distribution of light versus wavelength, which is what makes up the beautiful color spectrum. But enough of the science talk, weʼre going to be discussing how certain colors, when worn, will elicit the perfect emotional response. This week, the powerful and sexy red.

color red is generally associated with power, passion, and action. Whether you realize it or not, red is used in many food packaging and settings to increase appetite and rev up those tastebuds! Just think of things like the Food Network logo, Coca Cola, even McDonalds.

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However, appetite isnʼt the only thing red will stimulate, itʼs also been called the color of sexuality. Exciting the central nervous system, even glancing at the color will bring out our primal instincts which trace way back to when mammals would display that color when they were ready to mate. Regardless of what actions you have in mind, purchasing some red lingerie will be a step in the right direction. For nights filled with excitement and energy, check out our ranges of romantic and passionate red lingerie.

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 Our Gracya Avril Babydoll is an ultra sexy way to surprise.
someone. Itʼs form fitting enough that you can wear it under an outfit to be discovered at the right moment, but with super hot details like floral lace and and mesh, you might not be able to wait to show it off.

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Whether you want a lot of red, or just a hint of the color, a two-piece set is another great way to display the super powerful color. Mixed with another sexy color like black, youʼll cause all sorts of excitement when someone sees you in this number.
Really though, you donʼt need a special occasion to feel this sexy. Everyday bras and panties in the right color and style can amp you up for a big presentation, or instill confidence for a first date, the power of the color red doesnʼt have to stay in the bedroom. When youʼre in a day set like this, itʼs impossible not to be on a power trip!
Who knew a color that we see literally everyday could hold so much in controlling our emotions? From appetite, to sex, to confidence, this should be you and your partnerʼs go-to color when you want to rule to world for a day (or night)!

Romantic Evening

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Keeping your romantic life active and healthy can be difficult, especially when you're married. Amid the chaos of children, work, family and friends, we often lose sight of our spouses. It takes patience, time and love to keep your marriage strong and your physical intimacy intact. Whether you have been together 50 days or 50 years, it's never a bad idea to spend time romancing your husband.

Romantic Evening

Know your husband. Think about what your husband likes to do. Flowers and chocolate may be your idea of a relaxing and romantic evening, but not his. If you know upscale restaurants make him uncomfortable, don't take him to one. The point of a romantic night is to give you both time to unwind and enjoy each other. A romantic evening can start like any other date---at the movies, a restaurant, a sports event or a bar. Do what makes you both happy.

Know his schedule. It is very important that you know what he has on his plate. If his work week is busy, he may not have the time or energy to be romantic with you. If your husband is a sports fan, don't count on having his full attention during the week of the big game, a draft or another sport-related event. There are going to be times when you both need personal time and space for your own interests; find a common time for your romantic night. To avoid scheduling conflicts, let him know in advance that you have something planned. Make sure you can arrive home before him on the night you choose; it gives you time to prepare.

Remember to plan your evening. Find the kids a babysitter, put the dog outside and unplug the phones. Your romantic night should be free of worry and distractions for both you and your husband. Prepare food in advance, unless you enjoy cooking together.

 
Prepare your bedroom. If you plan to seduce your sweetheart, make sure the bedroom is clean and ready. Pick up dirty clothes and put away loose items. Air out the room and change the bed linens. Changing the curtains, using a different air freshener and dimming the lights are all good ways to give your room a fresh feel on your special night. You can also opt for more traditional gestures---light candles, scatter flower petals and use silk sheets.

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Start slow. Plan to engage your lover in light conversation and an easy-going activity. This could be playing video games, watching a movie or sharing drinks outside. Give him time to unwind from the day's activities and refocus on you and your romantic night.

 Plan for a meal. If you're cooking the meal yourself, have all of your ingredients available well ahead of time. Know what recipe you will use and how much time it takes to prepare. Don't prepare a carb-heavy meal, because carbs can make you feel weighted and tired.

Be proactive. After welcoming your husband home and enjoying your meal, make your intentions clear. You may plan a back massage or foot rub to get him in the mood. If you are uncomfortable being the aggressor, opt for subtle hints (trust that he knows you as well as you know him). Go for an evening stroll, pop in a favourite movie and turn the lights low or suggest feeding each other dessert. To cut to the chase, lead him to a shared shower, skinny dip or erotic massage. Know before your evening which approach you are more comfortable with. If you are trying to be bold for the first time, have a backup activity in case things don't go as planned.

Follow through. You can't really plan what you'll do after a certain point in the evening. Have faith that your preparations will go smoothly and relax into the romantic atmosphere that you created.

You married your husband for a reason. Use your romantic night to reaffirm your love and commitment to each other. Remember, the most romantic gestures are unplanned.

 

Discrete Sex Toys You Can Use in Public Without Getting Caught

Sex Toys aren’t just for the bedroom anymore. With the stresses of daily life, sometimes we need a little release during the day while at work, in our car or traveling. The thing is to not get caught.  Here are the best sex toys you can take with you anywhere that are so discrete no one but your will know what you use them for.

  It looks like lipstick and you can carry it in your purse or stash it in a make-up bag, but it’s really a vibrator in disguise. This will make traffic a lot less stressful—you just need to watch the faces you make. No “O” faces  and keep the windows rolled up.

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  Wireless remote controlled panties are one of the most amazing inventions. Get off in a plane, train or in the car. Best part is no one will know because you wear them under your clothes.

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How To Seduce a Man

How To Seduce a Man – 3 Basic Things Every Women Should Do To Attract A Man!

 Picking up a man isn’t as difficult as people sometimes lead you to believe… But Learning to seduce men and to understand them is still an art form… an art form that you can master, Madam, starting this very instant!

 But before sharing the secrets of seduction that will enable you to capture any man you desire, let me tell you a secret.

 

Be confident

Self-confidence… that’s a phrase I like. Would you like to bring every man to his knees?

 All women are beautiful, and EVERY woman has her charms, and her qualities. If you are less beautiful than other women, you SURELY have a very fine quality that others do not possess. If you have hang-ups, forget them! Nobody’s perfect and everyone has their own flaws!

Nowadays, and since time immemorial, beauty has always been considered something common, that everyone has, but today a woman with good qualities has become something rare and exceptional! A woman with graceful and noble qualities is, precisely, a WOMAN…

So stop making dramas and comedies about yourselves, ladies … put your right hand on your heart, and say:

 “Today, I accept myself, WITHOUT any conditions at all, I am a woman, and I can seduce every man that I want.”

Think about your Look

There’s nothing better than chatting and having conversations with a woman whose physical appearance is attractive! I respect women who take GOOD care of themselves, and invest heavily in their look.

Your mom probably tells you that beauty is on the inside and blah blah blah, but if you have a hairstyle shaped like an artichoke, wear super-large jeans and a supermarket shirt, men will avoid you like the plague… Beauty is, FIRST, external, if you don’t have style and class, no normally constituted man will give you a second glance.

 Change your hairstyle more often, and if you can, try to grow long hair, it’s a typical sign of femininity. Invest in clothes that are more or less sexy and glamorous. In summer, wear skirts, it’s another sign of femininity… and you know what, burn all those masculine clothes you have in the closet, men HATE to see women dressed like men.

Be a “rare” woman

Everything rare is expensive: the more we’re seen, the more we’re heard, the more we do, the more ordinary we seem. If you’re part of a group, stay away for a while and people will talk about you more, they’ll even admire you more. Practice absence: scarcity will increase your value.

 Make yourself into a woman who is rare and special, today’s men can’t stand conventional and ordinary women, all interesting men are TOO demanding on this point.

 As soon as a man sees you as a special woman, your work of seduction has definitely achieved its goal… it’s in the bag!

To put it in different terms, the “Romeo and Juliet” effect is probably the most widespread phenomenon associated with the principle of scarcity, so in fact, the more the parents oppose a relationship, the more united the couple will be.

In this situation, the sensation of loss we feel will drive us to focus more and more on the other person, blindly and with every means at our disposal.

 Make use of this principle of persuasion, don’t give him the impression that you’re seduced and already won over.

And how do you seduce a man while remaining natural?

You need to master the techniques of communication, confidence and, finally, optionally, the techniques of seduction.

Additionally, you should adopt and develop the mindset of the seductive woman, and you’ll be surprised to see CLEARLY that the secret codes of seduction, have become a child’s game for you.

 if you want to learn to be seductive, you must:

• Develop self-confidence
• Work on your personality to make it attractive
• Master the art of communication with others (the better you communicate, the better your basic level of seduction)
• Take care of your appearance and image; and finally:
• Know the techniques of seduction, and adopt those that suit YOU!

There is no magic formula in the galaxy of seduction. But there is the work you do on yourself, and what’s known as personal development.

 

 

5 Ways to Dominate Your Guy in Bed

When you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. Though you may have already tried out costumes and other kinds of role playing, dominating your guy in bed is one that many women forget to do. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are five tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows? It might become the norm for you.

Show Him Who’s in Charge

From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sex. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, what you’re doing, etc. Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are.

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Playful Control 

You might want to hold down his wrists and you kiss him and you begin to do whatever you like to your partner. Hold him down hard so that you can show that you are able to control him. Some people might like to use some ties or silk scarves to actually bind their partners down. This doesn’t have to be an expert job, just the idea that you don’t want him to interfere will be hot for him. Or you might just want to put a blindfold on your partner so he has no idea what you’re doing to do next – very controlling.

 Dress the Part

You can also dress the part of a pseudo-Dominatrix by dressing in all black or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. Make sure that you feel confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume. Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control.

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Don’t Let Him Speak
Every time he tries to speak, make sure that you stop him. The best way to do this is to look right at him and to put your fingers on his mouth. You will want to also specifically tell him that you don’t want to hear him speak, right from the start. This will cause you to have control over what is happening and he will not be able to protest. Each time he talks, tell him to be quiet, if that seems right, or simply ignore him and remind him that you are the one who is in control.

 Tell Him What to Do

You will also be in control if you tell him what to do, when to do it, how hard to do it, etc. You need to be the one who is in complete control of all that is happening in the bedroom, from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.
Since men are typically the ones who are allowed to take control in the bedroom, it can be nice for a woman to take on this role from time to time. And you just might find that being in control is hotter for you too.

Beat bedroom boredom: Ways to spice things up

Get Out Of That Rut

Every couple falls into a rut now and again. If you'd rather snooze than have sex lately, follow these tips and tricks to spice things up in the bedroom. 

 

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Take it outside

Instead of having sex in your bedroom every single time, move it to the kitchen or, better yet, outside. A change of scenery will do you both some good. Plan a picnic under the stars in your backyard, or take a camping trip and get busy in the tent.

Try a new position
 

No one likes the missionary position night after night. Try a new sex position, experiment with sex toys or act out your secret fantasies. A little change in the bedroom can make a big difference in terms of excitement. If you don't feel comfortable talking out loud about what you want in the bedroom, play a game by writing each other emails or notes filled with your desires.

 

Start having morning sex

If you are always too tired to have sex at night, become a morning person. Everyone enjoys a pre-work roll in the hay. Don't use the excuse that you don't have time. To force your way out of a rut, put a sex appointment on your schedule at least every other day. Make a commitment to stick to it, just like any other appointment.

Sexify your bedroom

If your bedroom is turning you off, change it up. Give your bed a makeover with new sheets and blankets, add some sexy lighting and install a large mirror. Your room should be your sexual sanctuary, not a place for kids' toys, dirty laundry, old magazines and other clutter.

 

Have an affair

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No, we aren't suggesting you cheat on your partner. Instead, have an affair with your man. Plan clandestine meetings at hotels during your lunch hour. Meet him at his office wearing nothing but a trench coat and heels. Send him naughty emails and cryptic text messages. Sneaky sex is hot — and a fabulous way to ignite your relationship once again.
 

 

 

 

 

 

Lingerie Styles - Which Are You?

5 Lingerie Styles – Which Are You?

1. Cute – You like everything that is cute not too low cut or overly sexy. 

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 2. Sexy – You like to show it all off – You hide very little.

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3. Romantic - You like flowers, hearts and everything nice. You go more for the baby doll lingerie style.

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 4. Naughty – You like to be devilish in your wardrobe and go for the lowest cut tops you can find along with the highest skirt or short shorts length. You are definitely in the very sexy lingerie section.

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 5. Polished – You like to retain that professional look from the day into the night. You just can’t give it up. You are into the lingerie dresses. 

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Which style are you?

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