How to Be Really Sexy with Your Boyfriend

You love your boyfriend, but you're in a tricky situation. After the first few months of passion, the flames of love have been reduced to embers, and you're struggling to find a way to stay sexy. To keep things interesting, you have to embrace sexy as a way of life and learn to think sexy, act sexy, and look sexy. Read on to learn how to bring your sexy back.

 Love your looks. If you think you look sexy, your boyfriend will think so, too. Instead of asking him for reinforcement about your looks, be proud to show off your beautiful face and body

• Pick at least three attributes you love about yourself, and show 'em off. If you love your legs, wear a shorter skirt, and if you think your arms are to die for, expose them in the perfect tank top.
• Have fun with your body. Dance in front of the mirror to your favorite song, and you'll see how much fun it is to inhabit your body.
• Be healthy. Eating right and exercising can have a positive impact on the way you think about yourself. Exercise can also be an opportunity to do something sexy with your boyfriend, like taking salsa lessons.
• Pay attention to the way you talk about your body. If you're wearing a new dress, instead of asking your boyfriend, "Do I look okay in this?" tell him, "Don't I look fabulous in this?" He'll be turned on by your love for your looks.

 Be confident. There's nothing sexier than showing your man how confident you are. Instead of spending time telling you that you're amazing, he'll be busy loving your natural ease with yourself, which will make you look even more sexy. Here are some ways to be confident:

• Be aware of the things that make you a beautiful, unique, and talented individual. When you're having doubts, remind yourself of these qualities. It may even help to write them down.
• Be confident--to a point. Part of confidence is accepting that you are a flawed individual. You're already awesome, but there's always room for improvement. Your boyfriend will be impressed not only by your confidence, but by how comfortable you are in admitting you're not perfect.

 Have a sexy face. In spite of what you may think, your face really is the first thing your boyfriend notices, so keep up a sexy appearance and the rest will follow.

• If you feel comfortable wearing makeup, put on just enough to give your eyes a smoky look and your lips a nice luscious tint.
• Give your boyfriend sexy glances. Just the look in your eyes can let him know how you really feel about him.

 Wear underwear that makes you feel and look sexy. Knowing that you have it on can make you feel sexy, or showing your man a hint of what you have planned for later can make him excited for the rest of your night. Some sexy items include:

• A thong, lacy underwear, a push up bra, pearls, a corset, knee-high socks, or spandex.
• Avoid any uncomfortable fabrics that can lead to chafing, which is the opposite of sexy.

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Keep it simple. You don't need to always wear designer thongs or teddies. As long as you wear something out of the norm that shows more skin, your man will think it's sexy that you're wearing it for his benefit.
  Don't wear anything so elaborate that it will be impossible to remove. This may lead to frustration and other mishaps in the bedroom.

Look provocative--not trashy. If your clothes are revealing more than they're hiding, your boyfriend will be embarrassed to be seen with you instead of turned on.

• Make sure your dresses and skirts are like a good story--short enough to keep things interesting, but long enough to cover everything.
• It's good to show a little cleavage, but not so much that most of your chest is exposed.
• Showing a little bit of bra strap can be sexy, but exposing your entire bra is too much.

 Have sexy feet and hands. Care for your other extremities so your man will be even more excited by you.

• Take care of your hands and fingernails so your man will be turned on when he holds them.
• Keep your feet nice and fresh so you smell sexy in the bedroom.