Men's Obsession With Lingerie

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As you're reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there's no future of its slowing down anytime soon.

why do women wear it?

Before I get into why guys salivate when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let's try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with.


I'm too sexy
Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what's under her attire that's got her in a good mood.
Anticipation
Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, watching her prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what's going to happen once the lace and satin come off.

why guys love lingerie

Some guys don't see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds, but others appreciate every thread on a woman's body. Lingerie need not be an acquired taste. For me?
Everyone loves to feel special and when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you'll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you're invited to the unveiling.
No grandmas
It's hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, so lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. When you see her donning that lacy teddy, she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that.
Who are you?
Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky latex number and the two of you can play "Where oh where is the Naughty Housewife?"
What are the top 5 lingerie items that men love?

 Diversification
Sometimes a new outfit can bring out a different trait in a person and lingerie can have that desired effect easily. While her negligee might utter, "Make love to me," her garter belts might be shouting, "Ravish me!"

Media
Of course, watching those Angels in the Victoria's Secret commercials doesn't hurt in feeding men these fantasies about what lingerie can get them. In effect, you rush to your nearest shop and load up on items that'll make her want to seduce you into oblivion.

what men prefer

So what do you guys love seeing your women in? Well, here are the top 5 items that AskMen readers sent in without hesitation. And in case there was any doubt, all of these include a pair of very high heels that stay on even after the clothes come off. 5- Chemise Watching her walk around in a plain silky mini-dress-like piece with nothing underneath made many guys feel like making love.
4- Babydoll This little number perks up her breasts and has a slit down the middle starting underneath her chest, and works its way down to her thighs. Oh, and it comes with great bikini underwear as well.
3- Teddy Because it looks like a bathing suit, only a lot sexier, the slit up the butt and the fact that it unbuttons from the crotch had many a man salivating hungrily to take it off.
2- Camisole & Thong Sometimes simplicity works best and guys like seeing their women dressed up with a hint of innocence in a tank top and sexy underwear.
1- Push-up Bra, G-string & Garter Belts Was there any doubt? Garter belts have been used to seduce men for years and things aren't about to change anytime soon. If your woman hasn't seduced you with them yet, perhaps it's time the two of you invested in a couple of pairs.

is it all in your head?

Is this obsession with lingerie simply a ploy thought up by retailers to lure men and women into the notion that sexy undergarments are a necessary part of a good love life? Or is lingerie popular because men are visual creatures who get excited when they see a woman dressed in seductive underwear? Perhaps it's a little bit of both, but there's no doubt that lingerie does have its positive effects on both men and women. Men love the element of surprise when their women get undressed, and there's this whole other private outfit worn with them in mind and for which they're the inspiration.
And women love lingerie because it makes them feel not only sexy, but feminine. So the next time she removes her business attire and she's wearing a sexy teddy, take a moment to appreciate her body and what's wrapped around it before you take control and show her what kind of effect she has on you and your manhood.

How To Seduce a Man

How To Seduce a Man – 3 Basic Things Every Women Should Do To Attract A Man!

 Picking up a man isn’t as difficult as people sometimes lead you to believe… But Learning to seduce men and to understand them is still an art form… an art form that you can master, Madam, starting this very instant!

 But before sharing the secrets of seduction that will enable you to capture any man you desire, let me tell you a secret.

 

Be confident

Self-confidence… that’s a phrase I like. Would you like to bring every man to his knees?

 All women are beautiful, and EVERY woman has her charms, and her qualities. If you are less beautiful than other women, you SURELY have a very fine quality that others do not possess. If you have hang-ups, forget them! Nobody’s perfect and everyone has their own flaws!

Nowadays, and since time immemorial, beauty has always been considered something common, that everyone has, but today a woman with good qualities has become something rare and exceptional! A woman with graceful and noble qualities is, precisely, a WOMAN…

So stop making dramas and comedies about yourselves, ladies … put your right hand on your heart, and say:

 “Today, I accept myself, WITHOUT any conditions at all, I am a woman, and I can seduce every man that I want.”

Think about your Look

There’s nothing better than chatting and having conversations with a woman whose physical appearance is attractive! I respect women who take GOOD care of themselves, and invest heavily in their look.

Your mom probably tells you that beauty is on the inside and blah blah blah, but if you have a hairstyle shaped like an artichoke, wear super-large jeans and a supermarket shirt, men will avoid you like the plague… Beauty is, FIRST, external, if you don’t have style and class, no normally constituted man will give you a second glance.

 Change your hairstyle more often, and if you can, try to grow long hair, it’s a typical sign of femininity. Invest in clothes that are more or less sexy and glamorous. In summer, wear skirts, it’s another sign of femininity… and you know what, burn all those masculine clothes you have in the closet, men HATE to see women dressed like men.

Be a “rare” woman

Everything rare is expensive: the more we’re seen, the more we’re heard, the more we do, the more ordinary we seem. If you’re part of a group, stay away for a while and people will talk about you more, they’ll even admire you more. Practice absence: scarcity will increase your value.

 Make yourself into a woman who is rare and special, today’s men can’t stand conventional and ordinary women, all interesting men are TOO demanding on this point.

 As soon as a man sees you as a special woman, your work of seduction has definitely achieved its goal… it’s in the bag!

To put it in different terms, the “Romeo and Juliet” effect is probably the most widespread phenomenon associated with the principle of scarcity, so in fact, the more the parents oppose a relationship, the more united the couple will be.

In this situation, the sensation of loss we feel will drive us to focus more and more on the other person, blindly and with every means at our disposal.

 Make use of this principle of persuasion, don’t give him the impression that you’re seduced and already won over.

And how do you seduce a man while remaining natural?

You need to master the techniques of communication, confidence and, finally, optionally, the techniques of seduction.

Additionally, you should adopt and develop the mindset of the seductive woman, and you’ll be surprised to see CLEARLY that the secret codes of seduction, have become a child’s game for you.

 if you want to learn to be seductive, you must:

• Develop self-confidence
• Work on your personality to make it attractive
• Master the art of communication with others (the better you communicate, the better your basic level of seduction)
• Take care of your appearance and image; and finally:
• Know the techniques of seduction, and adopt those that suit YOU!

There is no magic formula in the galaxy of seduction. But there is the work you do on yourself, and what’s known as personal development.