Men's Obsession With Lingerie

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As you're reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there's no future of its slowing down anytime soon.

why do women wear it?

Before I get into why guys salivate when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let's try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with.


I'm too sexy
Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what's under her attire that's got her in a good mood.
Anticipation
Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, watching her prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what's going to happen once the lace and satin come off.

why guys love lingerie

Some guys don't see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds, but others appreciate every thread on a woman's body. Lingerie need not be an acquired taste. For me?
Everyone loves to feel special and when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you'll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you're invited to the unveiling.
No grandmas
It's hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, so lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. When you see her donning that lacy teddy, she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that.
Who are you?
Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky latex number and the two of you can play "Where oh where is the Naughty Housewife?"
What are the top 5 lingerie items that men love?

 Diversification
Sometimes a new outfit can bring out a different trait in a person and lingerie can have that desired effect easily. While her negligee might utter, "Make love to me," her garter belts might be shouting, "Ravish me!"

Media
Of course, watching those Angels in the Victoria's Secret commercials doesn't hurt in feeding men these fantasies about what lingerie can get them. In effect, you rush to your nearest shop and load up on items that'll make her want to seduce you into oblivion.

what men prefer

So what do you guys love seeing your women in? Well, here are the top 5 items that AskMen readers sent in without hesitation. And in case there was any doubt, all of these include a pair of very high heels that stay on even after the clothes come off. 5- Chemise Watching her walk around in a plain silky mini-dress-like piece with nothing underneath made many guys feel like making love.
4- Babydoll This little number perks up her breasts and has a slit down the middle starting underneath her chest, and works its way down to her thighs. Oh, and it comes with great bikini underwear as well.
3- Teddy Because it looks like a bathing suit, only a lot sexier, the slit up the butt and the fact that it unbuttons from the crotch had many a man salivating hungrily to take it off.
2- Camisole & Thong Sometimes simplicity works best and guys like seeing their women dressed up with a hint of innocence in a tank top and sexy underwear.
1- Push-up Bra, G-string & Garter Belts Was there any doubt? Garter belts have been used to seduce men for years and things aren't about to change anytime soon. If your woman hasn't seduced you with them yet, perhaps it's time the two of you invested in a couple of pairs.

is it all in your head?

Is this obsession with lingerie simply a ploy thought up by retailers to lure men and women into the notion that sexy undergarments are a necessary part of a good love life? Or is lingerie popular because men are visual creatures who get excited when they see a woman dressed in seductive underwear? Perhaps it's a little bit of both, but there's no doubt that lingerie does have its positive effects on both men and women. Men love the element of surprise when their women get undressed, and there's this whole other private outfit worn with them in mind and for which they're the inspiration.
And women love lingerie because it makes them feel not only sexy, but feminine. So the next time she removes her business attire and she's wearing a sexy teddy, take a moment to appreciate her body and what's wrapped around it before you take control and show her what kind of effect she has on you and your manhood.

How To Buy Lingerie For a Woman

Buying lingerie for a wife or girlfriend seems simple, but there are plenty of ways to screw it up. So we asked real-live women to tell us what they look for in their underwear.

 When you give a woman underwear she likes, it has a powerful effect. Specifically, it makes her want to have sex with you. Hot sex. And lots of it.

But keep in mind I said underwear she likes. It needs to be the right style, the right size, and the right color. It needs to come at the correct point in the relationship. And it needs to be given on an appropriate occasion. (Think her birthday is appropriate? Read on.) Mess up any of that, and you’re going to have one annoyed, self-conscious, and/or weirded-out lady on your hands.
It may sound complicated, but all you really need to do is follow a few simple pieces of advice in order to get major relationship points — and all that sex I mentioned.

 CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME
There’s really only one hard-and-fast rule about the right point in a relationship to get lingerie for a woman: You can only do it after you’ve slept with her. Do it any sooner and and the perv alert will instantly go off in her head. But that’s not the only thing that you have to keep in mind. How long you should wait after you’ve had sex depends on the woman in question, according to Amanda Horan Kennedy, psychotherapist and CEO of the lingerie line Sassybax. “If you’ve noticed that she always wears matching bra and panties, she’ll probably appreciate the gift early in the relationship.”
If, however, she tends to wear whatever happens to be clean (if she doesn’t even worry about it being clean, you’re gonna have worse problems than figuring out how to buy her underwear), wait at least a month. That way she won’t think you’re being critical of her current underwear selection or trying to turn her into someone she’s not.
And whatever you do, avoid giving her underthings on her birthday. “For a birthday, she wants something she can show off to her friends,” Kennedy says. “Plus, lingerie is as much a gift to the giver as it is to the recipient, so don’t make her special day about you.” All other occasions— New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, Secretary’s Day — are game on

 DON’T BE CREEPY
You may feel sleazy when you’re surrounded by lingerie in a store. Well, that’s probably because you look sleazy surrounded by lingerie in a store. If you’re self-conscious about it, you may skulk around, avoid eye contact, and refuse help. But it’s not like you’re there to buy something for yourself or to eyeball the mannequins … uh, right? … so there’s no reason to feel weird. That’s why you should walk right up to a sales associate and say, “I’m looking for something for my girlfriend/wife.” She’ll take it from there.
Before you hit the mall, you need to figure out your lady’s size. The best way is to check the tags on pieces she already owns. “When in doubt, go larger than you think she is in the bra and smaller in the panty,” Kennedy suggests. Most women would rather believe you imagine they’re better endowed in the chest and more petite in the ass.
Just don’t use the person helping you as a size reference: “Her boobs are about as big as yours — what size are you?” The only thing creepier than a guy who keeps to himself in a lingerie store is a guy who flirts with the saleswoman.

FIT THE STYLE TO HER PERSONALITY
It’s been scientifically proven that men are incapable of distinguishing trashy from sexy, so please, please don’t go with your instincts when it comes to picking out underthings and buy those crotchless panties and tassled bra.
Instead, take her personality and personal style into consideration before choosing what to purchase. No clue what that means? Luckily, we have a handy little guide for you.
If she’s a jeans and t-shirts kind of girl: Stick with simple and elegant like a lace boyshort and matching camisole. (Don’t worry, the salesperson will know what all that means.) A set like this can basically double as pajamas, so a woman who’s never worn lingerie before won’t feel silly and uncomfortable.

If she’s wild in the bedroom: Got a sexpot on your hands? Get her something costume-y like a corset, thong, and garters. Just don’t get her an actual costume. Whips, cat ears, French maid aprons — these are the things that ruin what could have been a nice gift. (And besides, she’ll dress like that next Halloween anyway.)

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Oh, and only buy pieces with lots of hooks, clasps, ties, and buttons if you’re willing — and able — to undo them all.
 
If she’s shy or self-conscious about her body: When buying underwear for the little lady, your first instinct may be to get whatever is the most revealing. Well, if she’s shy, ignore that instinct and instead get a sheer teddy and full-coverage underwear. Women find it really difficult to get in the mood when they’re worried about how they look, so opting for something conservative — we’re talking in relative terms here — will actually work in your favor.
 
If you have no idea what she’s like: Hey, F-buddies enjoy gifts too. A silk or sateen balconette bra and a matching thong or brief are a sure thing. And even the low-end ones look luxe.
Look for one with minimal detailing — like a few bows or some lace trim.

 DON’T GET NUDE
“Nude is the most popular color of intimate apparel a woman buys herself,” Kennedy says. “So avoid giving that color as a gift.” It feels too practical and everyday. Plus, you run the risk of her thinking it’s shapewear (the modern day version of girdles) and getting offended.
Oh, and in case you haven’t noticed, flesh-colored undies also tend to turn women into mannequin-like genital-less beings. And you do not think that’s sexy … I hope.

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 BE CAREFUL WITH PASTELS
You’re going to see a lot of light shades on your shopping trip. It’s OK to go with a pale pink or a sky blue, but only in solids. Light colors in patterns — like flowers or polka dots — can look too little-girly.

SPEND MONEY ON RED
Many women love red or hot-pink — especially on Valentine’s Day — but be warned: If you’re not buying high-end stuff, lingerie in those colors can easily look cheap and tacky once it’s on.
So skip the mall and try a boutique, where everything will be of higher quality and save you from sending her a message that you want her to look trashy.

WHEN IN DOUBT, BET ON BLACK
It’s flattering next to all skin tones, it’s slimming, and it’s always classic while remaining sexy. Bottom line: It’ll look good wrapped in tissue paper when you present it, it’ll look good on her, and it’ll look good in a heap on the floor next to the bed.

How to Be Really Sexy with Your Boyfriend

You love your boyfriend, but you're in a tricky situation. After the first few months of passion, the flames of love have been reduced to embers, and you're struggling to find a way to stay sexy. To keep things interesting, you have to embrace sexy as a way of life and learn to think sexy, act sexy, and look sexy. Read on to learn how to bring your sexy back.

 Love your looks. If you think you look sexy, your boyfriend will think so, too. Instead of asking him for reinforcement about your looks, be proud to show off your beautiful face and body

• Pick at least three attributes you love about yourself, and show 'em off. If you love your legs, wear a shorter skirt, and if you think your arms are to die for, expose them in the perfect tank top.
• Have fun with your body. Dance in front of the mirror to your favorite song, and you'll see how much fun it is to inhabit your body.
• Be healthy. Eating right and exercising can have a positive impact on the way you think about yourself. Exercise can also be an opportunity to do something sexy with your boyfriend, like taking salsa lessons.
• Pay attention to the way you talk about your body. If you're wearing a new dress, instead of asking your boyfriend, "Do I look okay in this?" tell him, "Don't I look fabulous in this?" He'll be turned on by your love for your looks.

 Be confident. There's nothing sexier than showing your man how confident you are. Instead of spending time telling you that you're amazing, he'll be busy loving your natural ease with yourself, which will make you look even more sexy. Here are some ways to be confident:

• Be aware of the things that make you a beautiful, unique, and talented individual. When you're having doubts, remind yourself of these qualities. It may even help to write them down.
• Be confident--to a point. Part of confidence is accepting that you are a flawed individual. You're already awesome, but there's always room for improvement. Your boyfriend will be impressed not only by your confidence, but by how comfortable you are in admitting you're not perfect.

 Have a sexy face. In spite of what you may think, your face really is the first thing your boyfriend notices, so keep up a sexy appearance and the rest will follow.

• If you feel comfortable wearing makeup, put on just enough to give your eyes a smoky look and your lips a nice luscious tint.
• Give your boyfriend sexy glances. Just the look in your eyes can let him know how you really feel about him.

 Wear underwear that makes you feel and look sexy. Knowing that you have it on can make you feel sexy, or showing your man a hint of what you have planned for later can make him excited for the rest of your night. Some sexy items include:

• A thong, lacy underwear, a push up bra, pearls, a corset, knee-high socks, or spandex.
• Avoid any uncomfortable fabrics that can lead to chafing, which is the opposite of sexy.

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Keep it simple. You don't need to always wear designer thongs or teddies. As long as you wear something out of the norm that shows more skin, your man will think it's sexy that you're wearing it for his benefit.
  Don't wear anything so elaborate that it will be impossible to remove. This may lead to frustration and other mishaps in the bedroom.

Look provocative--not trashy. If your clothes are revealing more than they're hiding, your boyfriend will be embarrassed to be seen with you instead of turned on.

• Make sure your dresses and skirts are like a good story--short enough to keep things interesting, but long enough to cover everything.
• It's good to show a little cleavage, but not so much that most of your chest is exposed.
• Showing a little bit of bra strap can be sexy, but exposing your entire bra is too much.

 Have sexy feet and hands. Care for your other extremities so your man will be even more excited by you.

• Take care of your hands and fingernails so your man will be turned on when he holds them.
• Keep your feet nice and fresh so you smell sexy in the bedroom.

Choosing the Babydoll Lingerie for You

Babydoll lingerie has been one of women’s favorite choices for undergarments ever since the 1960’s. The design of the babydoll exudes an irresistible mix of charming innocence and naughty kinkiness, with its flaring skirt that softly reaches up around the thighs and the scooping bra cups atop a flirty camisole.

Shape or form
 

Another reason for its continued popularity is the fact that babydoll lingerie can be easily worn by women; the basic design lends itself beautifully to any shape or form of the female body. For example, if you’re well endowed in the bust area, there are several babydoll designs that feature larger cup sizes for better support. If you want to enhance your breast size, however, there are also styles that have push-up cups. Here’s a quick tip: choose a babydoll that is less frilly if you’re a petite woman. Frills or ruffles, especially around the neck area, tend to draw attention to your face and bust. If you have small breasts, choose a babydoll design that has a v-neckline. This style, coupled with push-up cups, can wonderfully enhance the look of your bust.

 

 Length 

With regards to the length of the skirt, a petite woman will look better wearing babydoll lingerie with shorter skirts. This will help to enhance the look of your legs and make them seem longer as well. The best thing to do if you’re confused about skirt lengths is to choose one that lengthens your legs, not cover them up too much. Aside from giving the illusion of length, a shorter skirt is generally more appealing and will look sexier.

  

Color

Many women may also get confused about choosing the right color for babydoll lingerie. The right color is

actually the one that suits your mood for the day (or evening). Do you feel cute, sweet, and innocent today? Wear a babydoll with pastel colors like pink, baby blue, or any variety of white. Women who want to exude an aura of dominance and powerful sexuality will mostly choose red or black.

However, be careful about immediately buying a babydoll off the rack just because you like the color. Make sure that it also matches your hair and skin color. For example, there are women who will have pinkish skin tones and will still wear red babydoll lingerie, without them knowing that the color makes them look like they have a fever. Choose the colors as you would any other type of clothing by making sure that they flatter your hair color and skin tones.

 

Fabric

When it comes to the fabric, you may want to try wearing velvet, satin, lace, or silk. Bear in mind, however, that even though these are the most popular fabrics for babydoll lingerie, they are not the easiest to clean and take care of. If you prefer lingerie that’s as easy to wash/clean as they are soft, you might want to try nylon fabrics. It makes for a great substitute and is even washing-machine-friendly. Practicality aside, however, silk and satin are among the softest and silkiest fabrics that you could choose for babydoll lingerie.

Do you wear sexy lingerie for your partner?

Control your sexiness

Dressing up in sexy lingerie, could be fun: not only fun but it can strengthen your relationship, with your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife. Imagine you and your partner, working all week or taking care of the children; you might get a possible five minutes, to enjoy each other; when you’re suddenly interrupted by the children or you’re too tired to start with.
For you and your partner to keep that burning flame: for each other, arrange a day in each week or two days a month, when you and your partner will go wild wearing sexy lingerie, and experimenting new things. Talk with your partner and arrange these sexy dates, and there will only be, one thing on your partners mind.

  Sexy corset set from Nya Lingerie

For those of you that are religious: would you wear sexy lingerie?, or would you say you’re not allow to, dress in that manner, what if your husband or wife ask you to? Would this, make a difference?
Looking from a biblical point of view, “the wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.” It appears most religious followers would not dear to buy a sexy lingerie,or even go further to wear one. Religious people can enjoy sexy lingerie too.There are so many different types of lingerie that exist in the lingerie stores. 
 It’s ok  to wear, sexy lingerie for your husband, as it could help to establish a new fun connection in the bedroom. If you’re the type that, just don’t like wearing lingerie. You and your partner could always come to a mutual decision: But before you make a hasty decision, try wearing a lingerie first, something that will make you feel comfortable: until you can choose something daring. Believe it or not, but when you see the reaction that your partner gives you, along with the string of flattering comments: you will change your mind.

 Sexy white Babydoll would you wear this?

 

Self confidence issues play, a major part in many people’s lives: due to this, many people doesn’t wear sexy lingerie. They dwell on negative, thinking and believing that their bodies are very disgusting: these sort of behavior can, and does ruin, marriage and relationships.

Low self esteem is a killer, think about the things you love about you and focus on those aspects. Take each compliment as a breath of fresh air, and see the beautiful you that your partner sees. So, go ahead and order yourself a sexy lingerie: fix your hair and makeup and surprise the, love of your life, with the new sexy you.

 

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Sexy Lingerie: The Elegance of Satin Underwear

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Satin is one of those fabrics that a great majority of people love. Its touch is so soft and smooth, the way it flows, and how incredibly sexy lingerie made out of satin can be, particularly satin underwear. If you love the touch of satin and have never experienced satin underwear or satin lingerie, I promise you that by the end of the article you'll soon own your first pair of satin underwear.

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Slipping into a satin babydoll for the first time is a feeling that you will long to feel again and again. Satin underwear itself underneath your clothing will feel like it's barely there, and will become your favorite pair of underwear, and most likely will soon fade out the other underwear and lingerie that you currently own. Not only does satin underwear feel great, it makes you feel sexy as well. And we all know that when you feel comfortable, and sexy, your confidence will skyrocket and it will show to everyone around you.
Men also enjoy satin underwear on women as it gives them a visual thrill. Most men's clothing and underwear is cotton and they don't get the luxury of experiencing the elegance of satin too often, so it is a treat when a woman wears satin underwear or satin lingerie. Men get a visual and sensual stimulation that drive the both of you wild. Shimmering satin underwear with a little lace is very feminine, which makes the majority of women feel comfortable wearing it all the time. Satin lingerie comes in all colors allowing for everyone to find satin lingerie that they will absolutely adore.
With the growing number of online lingerie stores, the selection of satin underwear and satin lingerie is growing with it. You could spend hours perusing the varieties of satin lingerie and will be sure to find the piece you know was made just for you. If you are stuck on finding a gift for that person who seems to already have everything, then what better gift then satin underwear? You can never have too many and really can't go wrong. I don't know anyone who would turn down a sexy pair of satin underwear. The other great benefit of satin is that it comes in a number of variations. From satin underwear in itself, to satin slips, satin babydolls, satin dresses, satin basques, satin camisoles, satin nightwear and so much more, there is sure to be an option for anyone.

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So whether you are so convinced now that you just must try Satin Underwear, or you would like to buy a gift for someone special, know that you just can't go wrong with satin. There are so many options to choose from, from colors, styles, lace trim, ribbons, and so on, you can fit the style of anyone and give them a gift they will love. If you're shopping online, the websites will offer photos examples of what the different satin underwear and lingerie look like so you can get a clear idea of what it is. Shopping online also gives you many options for support and advice on what's in style and even a gift guide and advice for men shopping for their wife, girlfriend or fiancé. All in all, you can't go wrong with satin. And with all the new technology regarding shopping online, it's never been so easy. If you still are unsure about satin underwear or satin lingerie, the only option you have left is to purchase one and just feel its elegance for yourself: I promise you won't be disappointed.

Have an Appealing Look for Your Spouse - Wear Sexy Lingerie

Have an Appealing Look for Your Spouse - Wear Sexy Lingerie 

 

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Every woman wants to have a sexy and appealing look for someone. Having a sexy look has a very strong relation with your mental state. Sometimes you may have to use some tools to turn yourself on. It is very well said by someone “If you want look sexy, you have to think sexy”. What are your thoughts that how you can look sexy? First of all do something which should make you to feel sexy and then you can look sexy. If you can’t develop these thought then even you would be wearing some very attractive and sexy stuff but your actions wouldn’t match your mental state. Sexy Lingerie is something which can turn your feelings on and can setup a stage to get these feelings. It works like a signal or the cue that has ability to turn the parts of your brain on. It is like an indication for your spouse that you want him to make love.

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For instance you like to take shower before you make love with your partner. If at some evening you are going to have a bath so your spouse must understand that you are in a mood and he must be ready to enjoy a beautiful night with you. Similarly, if you are going out with your partner and you put the sexy lingerie on then it must be a sign that you are ready to make this night a special one for your partner. Sexy lingerie must put you in the best mood and best frame of mind. Let’s take an example that how wearing such kind stuff can turn you on. For example you are a working woman and when you get back to your home, you want to change your dress at very first place. You want to forget everything about your daily routine work. When you take off your formal office dress and wear the loose trousers and T-shirt, you feel much relaxed. This is how your dress affects your mental state. Same is the case with sexy lingerie. When you slip into it, it makes you feel sexier and shows off the signs to your spouse that you are turned on.

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There are some women who are more than confident that they look pretty and sexy, irrespective of the stuff they wear. Some others would feel that they only need to have a great coat of armor which should be made of sexy lingerie to be a bit warm. Selection of the right kind of lingerie would really depend on the person’s nature. Some would like to get babydoll nightie to look amazing at some special night. Peignoir would be the choice of those who want to show off their skin through the beautifully designed net. There are many other types of lingerie which can be the choice of the ladies to look sexier. These types may include Teddy, Corset, Bustier, Chemise, and body-stocking. The best thing is that you should know what type of lingerie which can give you the sexiest look for your spouse.

 

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Bridal Lingerie: Wedding Night Essentials For Every Bride To Be!

Bridal season is here! From the venue, to the music, to the catering, there are so many elements that go into planning your big day. For a bride to be the most magical of moments is finding that perfect wedding dress, which goes hand in hand with selecting lingerie pieces for that special night. It’s all about what mood you want to bring to the bedroom. What look are you going for? Ultra glamorous? Flirty and fun? Sexy yet sophisticated? The wedding planning process can be a stressful one. To make this part a little less complicated, we’ve narrowed down the bridal lingerie essentials, just for you! 

For the Ultra Glam Bride:

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 Getting the ultra glamorous look means head to toe perfection! Matching sets are great for this bride. There’s no fuss, no color coordinating and no having to match separates. Another option is the bustier; it is a structured piece that acts as the focal point of the ensemble. Giving you that extra push up, the bustier gives you that extra boost of confidence and will definitely get him excited! 

 For the Flirty and Fun Bride: 

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For the fun and flirty bride it is all about the tease. Try spicing things up by keeping your partner on his toes with peekaboo lace and sheer fabrics. Babydolls are the ultimate flirty piece; typically adorned with bows they are sweet and sexy with a loose-fitting skirt. 

 

 

  

For the Sexy Sophisticate: 

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For this bride its all about dominating in the bedroom. Make an impression on your wedding night with chic, tailored lingerie choices. Opt for a sexy thong paired with a beautiful corset or a chemise with a timeless silhouette. Garters and stockings also bring a classic sophistication to any wedding night lingerie ensemble.

 

 

Red Lingerie

Itʼs pretty amazing how something as simple as a color can make us feel. In fact thereʼs even a name for studying the science of color–chromatics. It basically studies the effects of how our brains interpret the distribution of light versus wavelength, which is what makes up the beautiful color spectrum. But enough of the science talk, weʼre going to be discussing how certain colors, when worn, will elicit the perfect emotional response. This week, the powerful and sexy red.

color red is generally associated with power, passion, and action. Whether you realize it or not, red is used in many food packaging and settings to increase appetite and rev up those tastebuds! Just think of things like the Food Network logo, Coca Cola, even McDonalds.

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However, appetite isnʼt the only thing red will stimulate, itʼs also been called the color of sexuality. Exciting the central nervous system, even glancing at the color will bring out our primal instincts which trace way back to when mammals would display that color when they were ready to mate. Regardless of what actions you have in mind, purchasing some red lingerie will be a step in the right direction. For nights filled with excitement and energy, check out our ranges of romantic and passionate red lingerie.

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 Our Gracya Avril Babydoll is an ultra sexy way to surprise.
someone. Itʼs form fitting enough that you can wear it under an outfit to be discovered at the right moment, but with super hot details like floral lace and and mesh, you might not be able to wait to show it off.

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Whether you want a lot of red, or just a hint of the color, a two-piece set is another great way to display the super powerful color. Mixed with another sexy color like black, youʼll cause all sorts of excitement when someone sees you in this number.
Really though, you donʼt need a special occasion to feel this sexy. Everyday bras and panties in the right color and style can amp you up for a big presentation, or instill confidence for a first date, the power of the color red doesnʼt have to stay in the bedroom. When youʼre in a day set like this, itʼs impossible not to be on a power trip!
Who knew a color that we see literally everyday could hold so much in controlling our emotions? From appetite, to sex, to confidence, this should be you and your partnerʼs go-to color when you want to rule to world for a day (or night)!

5 Ways to Dominate Your Guy in Bed

When you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. Though you may have already tried out costumes and other kinds of role playing, dominating your guy in bed is one that many women forget to do. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are five tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows? It might become the norm for you.

Show Him Who’s in Charge

From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sex. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, what you’re doing, etc. Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are.

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Playful Control 

You might want to hold down his wrists and you kiss him and you begin to do whatever you like to your partner. Hold him down hard so that you can show that you are able to control him. Some people might like to use some ties or silk scarves to actually bind their partners down. This doesn’t have to be an expert job, just the idea that you don’t want him to interfere will be hot for him. Or you might just want to put a blindfold on your partner so he has no idea what you’re doing to do next – very controlling.

 Dress the Part

You can also dress the part of a pseudo-Dominatrix by dressing in all black or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. Make sure that you feel confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume. Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control.

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Don’t Let Him Speak
Every time he tries to speak, make sure that you stop him. The best way to do this is to look right at him and to put your fingers on his mouth. You will want to also specifically tell him that you don’t want to hear him speak, right from the start. This will cause you to have control over what is happening and he will not be able to protest. Each time he talks, tell him to be quiet, if that seems right, or simply ignore him and remind him that you are the one who is in control.

 Tell Him What to Do

You will also be in control if you tell him what to do, when to do it, how hard to do it, etc. You need to be the one who is in complete control of all that is happening in the bedroom, from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.
Since men are typically the ones who are allowed to take control in the bedroom, it can be nice for a woman to take on this role from time to time. And you just might find that being in control is hotter for you too.

Lingerie Styles - Which Are You?

5 Lingerie Styles – Which Are You?

1. Cute – You like everything that is cute not too low cut or overly sexy. 

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 2. Sexy – You like to show it all off – You hide very little.

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3. Romantic - You like flowers, hearts and everything nice. You go more for the baby doll lingerie style.

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 4. Naughty – You like to be devilish in your wardrobe and go for the lowest cut tops you can find along with the highest skirt or short shorts length. You are definitely in the very sexy lingerie section.

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 5. Polished – You like to retain that professional look from the day into the night. You just can’t give it up. You are into the lingerie dresses. 

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Which style are you?

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Seduction secrets of the French revealed

Seduction secrets of the French revealed: NO tights, NO bed socks and definitely NO pyjamas

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• Advice comes from Soft Paris, French equivalent of Ann Summers
• Company sells lingerie and sex toys and is set to launch in the UK
• Here they share their top ten tips on the art of seduction

When it comes to seduction, French women believe they have it down to a fine art.
And now they are set to share the secret of their success as Soft Paris, France's answer to Ann Summers, launches in the UK.   
The firm, which organises home parties selling lingerie, boudoir accessories and sex toys, say their ethos is to encourage women to explore their sexuality and teach them secrets to rekindle their relationships. 

Soft Paris reveal ten tips to allow British women to bring sexy French flair to the bedroom...

1. It's all in your walk

Why do English women hunch over, either shuffling or stomping? This is not seductive. Take the time to look around you, proudly, chin up/shoulders back, walking with one foot almost in front of the other, to undulate your hips provocatively. 

2. Be feline

Don't be a slobbery, noisy, bounding English bulldog. Imagine you’re an elegant cat - light, agile, graceful, quiet. Seduction is about understanding the effects of your movements and using them to your advantage.

 

Opt for stockings or suspenders and let him watch you put them on (and off) .

3. Be a lady

When a gentleman holds your coat out for you, do not take it from him, let him dress you. Allow doors to be held open and seats pulled out.
Be elegant, always. Don’t hold your glass of wine as if it's a pint of beer, French women lightly hold the top of the glass stem. Know how to handle all objects well.
 

4. Say goodbye to tightsInstead opt for stockings and suspenders, but make sure he is watching when you put them on - give him a show. Slip them on slowly with long strokes and finish off by snapping the elastic on the top of your thighs.

5. Use him

Although we could reach the zip on the back of our dresses if we really wanted to, allow him the privilege instead. It can be as seductive to dress a woman, as it is to undress her.

6. Give your lingerie drawer a makeover

Get rid of the Bridget Jones knickers and replace with black lace, ribbon trims, suspenders and waist cinching corsets. Your face should reveal what you’re wearing beneath your clothes, creating a subtle smile, the only clue to your your saucy secret.  

Wear black lace to seduce your man.

7. Go to bed dressed (or undressed) like a star

Forget the fleece pyjamas and bed socks. Opt for a sheer babydoll and a satin robe. It won’t stay on for long…

8. Be sweet

Wear scented and edible crème so your entire body is lickable. He’ll want to make you dessert

9. Flirt shamelessly

Even though he may be your husband, never stop seducing. At a dinner party, under the table, take his hand and slowly stroke it along your thigh, leading up to your suspenders. Send naughty texts while he is at work. Intimacy doesn’t have to stay at home…

10. A toy box is not just for the kids

Be playful, adventurous and uninhibited. Start by exploring and learning your own body, before moving on to your loved one. Intimate toys can create bedroom fireworks.

 

Sexy Black Lingerie is the Must Have Staple for Any Woman's Wardrobe

Color can have many emotional effects, and also affect us physically and mentally. Of the many different colors and hues, black is one of the most powerful colors. With a variety of meanings, the qualities of black make it the perfect color for lingerie.

Many words can be used to describe the qualities that black conveys. Sophistication, luxury, elegance, sexiness and more, black is known as an intriguing color that can create a sense of mystery. Evoking emotion with an exotic and daring appeal, black has a strong and authoritative impact that cannot be denied.
In fashion, black is always considered a stylish and versatile color. Black is also a popular color because of the visually slimming effect that it can have. Thought of as the most irresistible color for lingerie by many men, sexy black lingerie is an important staple in every wardrobe.
With a range of styles to choose from, at Nya Lingerie you will find the finest quality black lingerie.

Beautifully elegant sheer babydoll in black with rich golden embroidery in a celtic style design. The matching thong is included.

Cleo Babydoll

 

 

 

 A beautiful push up bra with ribbon detail and matching lacy thong available separately.

Carmen Black Bra

 

In soft cobweb lace with satin ties, this sexy lingerie set complements the natural shape of your body. The teddy is cut in a monokini style with a string back and satin ribbon detail to the hips and underbust

Perla Monokini Lace Teddy and Gloves Set

Leopard mesh and lycra bustier with underwire cups and neckline panel with halter tie straps. Bustier features elasticized waist, boning, center back hook and eye closure and attached garters.

Leopard Mesh Bustier

These exciting options are just a sample of the selection of the wonderful black intimate apparel. There are a number of different pieces in black to choose from, including an assortment of bras, corsets, thongs, g-strings, tangas and much more. Be sure to browse more of the stunning collections of rich lingerie choices that are available from Nya Lingerie

Pink Lingerie

If you love wearing bright colors – this Pink Lingerie collection will make a great addition to your wardrobe.

Nya Lace Babydoll

Princess Push up Bra

A Closer Look to Different Kinds of Lingerie

Lingerie, a term in the French language is applied to fashionable undergarments designed to be visually appealing or erotic. It connects women to femininity, sensuality, elegance and excitement. From delicate and decorous, to racy and extreme, the word lingerie can let imaginations run wild. A perfect and seductive way to cover as well as expose body and flatter figure, wearing lingerie can make a woman feel and look stunning and confident, or just comfortable.

To spice up intimate bedroom moments, lingerie can be of different types and comes in various decorative materials like Lycra, nylon, polyester, satin, lace, silk or simple cotton, and synthetic fabric.

Brassiere

 A brassiere or a bra is a form-fitting women undergarment that enhance wearer’s comfort by supporting, elevating her breasts. It comes in variety of fabrics, sizes and designs. Women can choose from full coverage, backless, convertible, front-fastening, halter, padded, plunge, sports/athletic, strapless and bandeau types. You can shop at Nya Lingerie and choose among the different designs available.

 

 

Panties

 A form of underwear designed to be worn in the crotch area below the waist. They are available in different cuts and styles, depending upon a woman’s figure, comfort and desire. They are of different types based on amount of rear coverage, width at the sides and height at which they are worn.

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 Chemise

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 It is one of the simplest garments worn next to the skin to protect from sweat and body oils. It is a short gown that fits tightly to the body and has thin, adjustable straps and falls just above the knees. Made from silk fabric, it gives the body a refined look.

Corset

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 A corset is a garment worn to hold and shape the torso into a desired shape for aesthetic or medical purposes. The most common use of corsets is to slim the body and make it conform to a stylish silhouette. To women, it gives a curvy figure, reducing the waist and exaggerating the bust and hips.

  

 

Babydoll

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A babydoll is a short, sometimes sleeveless, loose fitting nightgown or grunge intended as nightwear for women. It has bralette for cleavage attached with a loose fitting skirt falling in length between the upper thigh and the belly button. It is made of translucent fabrics like nylon or chiffon or silk.
  

 

 

 

A Perfect Fit

One of the best things about lingerie is that it has the ability to make you feel incredibly sexy, feminine while offering support to your figure. Whether you select a sexy piece or you look for everyday items, you can feel beautiful and confident in the right lingerie.