Men's Obsession With Lingerie

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As you're reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there's no future of its slowing down anytime soon.

why do women wear it?

Before I get into why guys salivate when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let's try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with.


I'm too sexy
Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what's under her attire that's got her in a good mood.
Anticipation
Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, watching her prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what's going to happen once the lace and satin come off.

why guys love lingerie

Some guys don't see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds, but others appreciate every thread on a woman's body. Lingerie need not be an acquired taste. For me?
Everyone loves to feel special and when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you'll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you're invited to the unveiling.
No grandmas
It's hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, so lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. When you see her donning that lacy teddy, she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that.
Who are you?
Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky latex number and the two of you can play "Where oh where is the Naughty Housewife?"
What are the top 5 lingerie items that men love?

 Diversification
Sometimes a new outfit can bring out a different trait in a person and lingerie can have that desired effect easily. While her negligee might utter, "Make love to me," her garter belts might be shouting, "Ravish me!"

Media
Of course, watching those Angels in the Victoria's Secret commercials doesn't hurt in feeding men these fantasies about what lingerie can get them. In effect, you rush to your nearest shop and load up on items that'll make her want to seduce you into oblivion.

what men prefer

So what do you guys love seeing your women in? Well, here are the top 5 items that AskMen readers sent in without hesitation. And in case there was any doubt, all of these include a pair of very high heels that stay on even after the clothes come off. 5- Chemise Watching her walk around in a plain silky mini-dress-like piece with nothing underneath made many guys feel like making love.
4- Babydoll This little number perks up her breasts and has a slit down the middle starting underneath her chest, and works its way down to her thighs. Oh, and it comes with great bikini underwear as well.
3- Teddy Because it looks like a bathing suit, only a lot sexier, the slit up the butt and the fact that it unbuttons from the crotch had many a man salivating hungrily to take it off.
2- Camisole & Thong Sometimes simplicity works best and guys like seeing their women dressed up with a hint of innocence in a tank top and sexy underwear.
1- Push-up Bra, G-string & Garter Belts Was there any doubt? Garter belts have been used to seduce men for years and things aren't about to change anytime soon. If your woman hasn't seduced you with them yet, perhaps it's time the two of you invested in a couple of pairs.

is it all in your head?

Is this obsession with lingerie simply a ploy thought up by retailers to lure men and women into the notion that sexy undergarments are a necessary part of a good love life? Or is lingerie popular because men are visual creatures who get excited when they see a woman dressed in seductive underwear? Perhaps it's a little bit of both, but there's no doubt that lingerie does have its positive effects on both men and women. Men love the element of surprise when their women get undressed, and there's this whole other private outfit worn with them in mind and for which they're the inspiration.
And women love lingerie because it makes them feel not only sexy, but feminine. So the next time she removes her business attire and she's wearing a sexy teddy, take a moment to appreciate her body and what's wrapped around it before you take control and show her what kind of effect she has on you and your manhood.

How To Buy Lingerie For a Woman

Buying lingerie for a wife or girlfriend seems simple, but there are plenty of ways to screw it up. So we asked real-live women to tell us what they look for in their underwear.

 When you give a woman underwear she likes, it has a powerful effect. Specifically, it makes her want to have sex with you. Hot sex. And lots of it.

But keep in mind I said underwear she likes. It needs to be the right style, the right size, and the right color. It needs to come at the correct point in the relationship. And it needs to be given on an appropriate occasion. (Think her birthday is appropriate? Read on.) Mess up any of that, and you’re going to have one annoyed, self-conscious, and/or weirded-out lady on your hands.
It may sound complicated, but all you really need to do is follow a few simple pieces of advice in order to get major relationship points — and all that sex I mentioned.

 CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME
There’s really only one hard-and-fast rule about the right point in a relationship to get lingerie for a woman: You can only do it after you’ve slept with her. Do it any sooner and and the perv alert will instantly go off in her head. But that’s not the only thing that you have to keep in mind. How long you should wait after you’ve had sex depends on the woman in question, according to Amanda Horan Kennedy, psychotherapist and CEO of the lingerie line Sassybax. “If you’ve noticed that she always wears matching bra and panties, she’ll probably appreciate the gift early in the relationship.”
If, however, she tends to wear whatever happens to be clean (if she doesn’t even worry about it being clean, you’re gonna have worse problems than figuring out how to buy her underwear), wait at least a month. That way she won’t think you’re being critical of her current underwear selection or trying to turn her into someone she’s not.
And whatever you do, avoid giving her underthings on her birthday. “For a birthday, she wants something she can show off to her friends,” Kennedy says. “Plus, lingerie is as much a gift to the giver as it is to the recipient, so don’t make her special day about you.” All other occasions— New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, Secretary’s Day — are game on

 DON’T BE CREEPY
You may feel sleazy when you’re surrounded by lingerie in a store. Well, that’s probably because you look sleazy surrounded by lingerie in a store. If you’re self-conscious about it, you may skulk around, avoid eye contact, and refuse help. But it’s not like you’re there to buy something for yourself or to eyeball the mannequins … uh, right? … so there’s no reason to feel weird. That’s why you should walk right up to a sales associate and say, “I’m looking for something for my girlfriend/wife.” She’ll take it from there.
Before you hit the mall, you need to figure out your lady’s size. The best way is to check the tags on pieces she already owns. “When in doubt, go larger than you think she is in the bra and smaller in the panty,” Kennedy suggests. Most women would rather believe you imagine they’re better endowed in the chest and more petite in the ass.
Just don’t use the person helping you as a size reference: “Her boobs are about as big as yours — what size are you?” The only thing creepier than a guy who keeps to himself in a lingerie store is a guy who flirts with the saleswoman.

FIT THE STYLE TO HER PERSONALITY
It’s been scientifically proven that men are incapable of distinguishing trashy from sexy, so please, please don’t go with your instincts when it comes to picking out underthings and buy those crotchless panties and tassled bra.
Instead, take her personality and personal style into consideration before choosing what to purchase. No clue what that means? Luckily, we have a handy little guide for you.
If she’s a jeans and t-shirts kind of girl: Stick with simple and elegant like a lace boyshort and matching camisole. (Don’t worry, the salesperson will know what all that means.) A set like this can basically double as pajamas, so a woman who’s never worn lingerie before won’t feel silly and uncomfortable.

If she’s wild in the bedroom: Got a sexpot on your hands? Get her something costume-y like a corset, thong, and garters. Just don’t get her an actual costume. Whips, cat ears, French maid aprons — these are the things that ruin what could have been a nice gift. (And besides, she’ll dress like that next Halloween anyway.)

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Oh, and only buy pieces with lots of hooks, clasps, ties, and buttons if you’re willing — and able — to undo them all.
 
If she’s shy or self-conscious about her body: When buying underwear for the little lady, your first instinct may be to get whatever is the most revealing. Well, if she’s shy, ignore that instinct and instead get a sheer teddy and full-coverage underwear. Women find it really difficult to get in the mood when they’re worried about how they look, so opting for something conservative — we’re talking in relative terms here — will actually work in your favor.
 
If you have no idea what she’s like: Hey, F-buddies enjoy gifts too. A silk or sateen balconette bra and a matching thong or brief are a sure thing. And even the low-end ones look luxe.
Look for one with minimal detailing — like a few bows or some lace trim.

 DON’T GET NUDE
“Nude is the most popular color of intimate apparel a woman buys herself,” Kennedy says. “So avoid giving that color as a gift.” It feels too practical and everyday. Plus, you run the risk of her thinking it’s shapewear (the modern day version of girdles) and getting offended.
Oh, and in case you haven’t noticed, flesh-colored undies also tend to turn women into mannequin-like genital-less beings. And you do not think that’s sexy … I hope.

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 BE CAREFUL WITH PASTELS
You’re going to see a lot of light shades on your shopping trip. It’s OK to go with a pale pink or a sky blue, but only in solids. Light colors in patterns — like flowers or polka dots — can look too little-girly.

SPEND MONEY ON RED
Many women love red or hot-pink — especially on Valentine’s Day — but be warned: If you’re not buying high-end stuff, lingerie in those colors can easily look cheap and tacky once it’s on.
So skip the mall and try a boutique, where everything will be of higher quality and save you from sending her a message that you want her to look trashy.

WHEN IN DOUBT, BET ON BLACK
It’s flattering next to all skin tones, it’s slimming, and it’s always classic while remaining sexy. Bottom line: It’ll look good wrapped in tissue paper when you present it, it’ll look good on her, and it’ll look good in a heap on the floor next to the bed.

How to Be Really Sexy with Your Boyfriend

You love your boyfriend, but you're in a tricky situation. After the first few months of passion, the flames of love have been reduced to embers, and you're struggling to find a way to stay sexy. To keep things interesting, you have to embrace sexy as a way of life and learn to think sexy, act sexy, and look sexy. Read on to learn how to bring your sexy back.

 Love your looks. If you think you look sexy, your boyfriend will think so, too. Instead of asking him for reinforcement about your looks, be proud to show off your beautiful face and body

• Pick at least three attributes you love about yourself, and show 'em off. If you love your legs, wear a shorter skirt, and if you think your arms are to die for, expose them in the perfect tank top.
• Have fun with your body. Dance in front of the mirror to your favorite song, and you'll see how much fun it is to inhabit your body.
• Be healthy. Eating right and exercising can have a positive impact on the way you think about yourself. Exercise can also be an opportunity to do something sexy with your boyfriend, like taking salsa lessons.
• Pay attention to the way you talk about your body. If you're wearing a new dress, instead of asking your boyfriend, "Do I look okay in this?" tell him, "Don't I look fabulous in this?" He'll be turned on by your love for your looks.

 Be confident. There's nothing sexier than showing your man how confident you are. Instead of spending time telling you that you're amazing, he'll be busy loving your natural ease with yourself, which will make you look even more sexy. Here are some ways to be confident:

• Be aware of the things that make you a beautiful, unique, and talented individual. When you're having doubts, remind yourself of these qualities. It may even help to write them down.
• Be confident--to a point. Part of confidence is accepting that you are a flawed individual. You're already awesome, but there's always room for improvement. Your boyfriend will be impressed not only by your confidence, but by how comfortable you are in admitting you're not perfect.

 Have a sexy face. In spite of what you may think, your face really is the first thing your boyfriend notices, so keep up a sexy appearance and the rest will follow.

• If you feel comfortable wearing makeup, put on just enough to give your eyes a smoky look and your lips a nice luscious tint.
• Give your boyfriend sexy glances. Just the look in your eyes can let him know how you really feel about him.

 Wear underwear that makes you feel and look sexy. Knowing that you have it on can make you feel sexy, or showing your man a hint of what you have planned for later can make him excited for the rest of your night. Some sexy items include:

• A thong, lacy underwear, a push up bra, pearls, a corset, knee-high socks, or spandex.
• Avoid any uncomfortable fabrics that can lead to chafing, which is the opposite of sexy.

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Keep it simple. You don't need to always wear designer thongs or teddies. As long as you wear something out of the norm that shows more skin, your man will think it's sexy that you're wearing it for his benefit.
  Don't wear anything so elaborate that it will be impossible to remove. This may lead to frustration and other mishaps in the bedroom.

Look provocative--not trashy. If your clothes are revealing more than they're hiding, your boyfriend will be embarrassed to be seen with you instead of turned on.

• Make sure your dresses and skirts are like a good story--short enough to keep things interesting, but long enough to cover everything.
• It's good to show a little cleavage, but not so much that most of your chest is exposed.
• Showing a little bit of bra strap can be sexy, but exposing your entire bra is too much.

 Have sexy feet and hands. Care for your other extremities so your man will be even more excited by you.

• Take care of your hands and fingernails so your man will be turned on when he holds them.
• Keep your feet nice and fresh so you smell sexy in the bedroom.

Sexy Black Lingerie is the Must Have Staple for Any Woman's Wardrobe

Color can have many emotional effects, and also affect us physically and mentally. Of the many different colors and hues, black is one of the most powerful colors. With a variety of meanings, the qualities of black make it the perfect color for lingerie.

Many words can be used to describe the qualities that black conveys. Sophistication, luxury, elegance, sexiness and more, black is known as an intriguing color that can create a sense of mystery. Evoking emotion with an exotic and daring appeal, black has a strong and authoritative impact that cannot be denied.
In fashion, black is always considered a stylish and versatile color. Black is also a popular color because of the visually slimming effect that it can have. Thought of as the most irresistible color for lingerie by many men, sexy black lingerie is an important staple in every wardrobe.
With a range of styles to choose from, at Nya Lingerie you will find the finest quality black lingerie.

Beautifully elegant sheer babydoll in black with rich golden embroidery in a celtic style design. The matching thong is included.

Cleo Babydoll

 

 

 

 A beautiful push up bra with ribbon detail and matching lacy thong available separately.

Carmen Black Bra

 

In soft cobweb lace with satin ties, this sexy lingerie set complements the natural shape of your body. The teddy is cut in a monokini style with a string back and satin ribbon detail to the hips and underbust

Perla Monokini Lace Teddy and Gloves Set

Leopard mesh and lycra bustier with underwire cups and neckline panel with halter tie straps. Bustier features elasticized waist, boning, center back hook and eye closure and attached garters.

Leopard Mesh Bustier

These exciting options are just a sample of the selection of the wonderful black intimate apparel. There are a number of different pieces in black to choose from, including an assortment of bras, corsets, thongs, g-strings, tangas and much more. Be sure to browse more of the stunning collections of rich lingerie choices that are available from Nya Lingerie

Guidelines for Guys: What is Sexy Lingerie?

One person can find a garment like crotchless panties sexy while someone else will find them disgusting. One may find sheer lingerie sexy while another prefers lace. So, how does a husband navigate this sexy lingerie minefield when trying to buy their wife a sexy piece of lingerie? Here are a few guidelines. 

 First, black is always safe. The color is sexy, but also slimming. Everyone feels good in black. Next, err on the more conservative side with your first purchase. Don’t start with chopper bras and crotchless panties. 

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Begin with a sexy yet pretty negligee with lace and matching panties. Float that balloon first. Based on the reaction and feedback, you can move up the risqué meter to more sheer and more revealing items. And, of course, there are costumes, but that should come later. 

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What to Look for When Shopping
It’s a lot easier if you know her sizes. If you don’t, take a look in her lingerie drawer and check the label on a bra—the size should be right there—34B, 38DD, something like that. Panties are in sizes usually from XS through XXL. Sometimes they’re numerical, ranging from about 5-10. You might also take a peak at brand names—especially on items she wears all the time. 

Now you’ve got the critical info—what to buy? Well, if you see quite a few of the same brand, you can take it up a notch and choose a luxury item in that brand. Or, how about buying her something you know she won’t buy for herself? Some suggest that thongs are the most comfortable panties ever, but some women won’t even try them. Let her try them out on your dime. 

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 If you absolutely can’t find her sizes, you’ve got a few choices: guess and hope for the best, ask her outright, or buy something not quite as dependent on fit, like a silk nightgown or slinky robe.

 Of course you’d like something you want to see her in, but if it’s too gimmicky or plain uncomfortable she’ll might wear it for you, but it won’t leave the drawer more than a few times a year—and that's probably being generous. The key is to choose something that’ll let her know you think she’s special, but will also be comfortable for her. Many women are so hung up about body image that they don’t realize that, to the men who love them, they are hot, hot, hot. So if you bought her a blender for the holidays or her birthday, this is the time to go all out and show her how she looks in your eyes.

How to Dress Sexy

Sometimes, it's the tiniest tweaks to what you wear — and bare — that can transform you into a bombshell. Just mix and match a few of these tips, and chances are those clothes won't stay on for long (nor will you want them to). 

 

Invest in some little black undies

You already know that a little black dress is a crucial component of any gal's wardrobe. Well, here's another essential: a barely-there lace bikini or thong in noir. Now you'll never be at a loss for what to wear under that little black dress, or be shy about showing it off.

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Put on clothes that say "pet me"

Silk, suede, cashmere, faux fur...unlike your usual cotton duds, these materials feel amazing against your skin and beg to be caressed. Talk about an easy way to get your guy's hands all over you. 

Lay on the eyeliner

Slightly smudged black eyeliner = smoldering sexpot. Put it on. Look in the mirror. Feel like doing something very, very bad tonight? We thought so.

Glam up your hands...

Manicures turn everyday mitts into instruments of mass seduction. Suddenly, every gesture you make seems mesmerizing; every object, person, or (ahem) body part you touch gets stroked in a more sensual way.

Transport yourself to the tropics

Wear a sprig of freesia or jasmine in your hair to feel incredibly island-sexy all day. Smells yummy and looks even yummier.

Wear fire-engine red

There's a reason why red was picked to paint stop signs: It's one very arresting color. Wear a red dress, red shoes, red anything, and it'll make you feel on fire.

Apply lipstick in front of him

This old-school sexy move is one few men can resist. How could they? After all, you're lavishing attention on your luscious lips.

Put on an animal print

Even the smallest accent — a leopard-print scarf, a zebra thong — will make you feel a little more feral.

Slip into a strappy tank top

Bra optional. Then watch him try to keep his eyes off you.

Try his clothes on for size

There's something about a woman lounging around in a man's white work shirt. Is it the stark contrast of a crisp, starched collar against bare skin? The fact that you're enticingly marking your territory? The way that, when open except for one strategically located button, the material skims thighs and covers the bare minimum of what needs covering and no more? We don't know, and frankly, we don't care. All we know is, it works!

Surprise him with a garter belt

Haven't worn one since your wedding? Then it's time to give him a second viewing. (It'll transform you into a sultry femme fatale from a forties movie; perhaps he'll want to role-play the hard-boiled private eye.) On your next night out, slide your guy's palm under your skirt just high enough so that he comes across your little surprise. A sexy mystery will begin!

Wear a candy necklace one night

To get him nibbling, tell him it's his dessert.

Untame your mane

Every once in awhile, don't bother blow-drying or styling your hair. Your slightly tousled tresses may tease out a little more of your wild side.

Wear heels...and nothing else

When getting undressed one evening, take off everything but your stilettos. Casually walk around as if you just haven't bothered to kick them off yet and see how long it takes him to pounce.

Slip into something comfortable

We know, full-length silk slips faded from women's wardrobes back in the 1940s. Here's why we should bring 'em back: First, they feel amazing under whatever you're wearing. Second, they look amazing in an Elizabeth Taylor, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof kind of way. Make sure it's the first thing he sees you put on in the morning — and the last thing you peel off come nighttime — to spark some Old Hollywood-style romance and feel like a silver screen siren.

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Lingerie He'll fall for

 Lingerie He'll fall for

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He will love it if your wearing a matching set.

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As your skirt falls to the floor, he hopes you have on red panties (and a matching bra—or both)... 

 

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Besides a bra-and-underwear set, he can't handle it when you slip on thigh-high stockings...

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