Seduction secrets of the French revealed

Seduction secrets of the French revealed: NO tights, NO bed socks and definitely NO pyjamas

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• Advice comes from Soft Paris, French equivalent of Ann Summers
• Company sells lingerie and sex toys and is set to launch in the UK
• Here they share their top ten tips on the art of seduction

When it comes to seduction, French women believe they have it down to a fine art.
And now they are set to share the secret of their success as Soft Paris, France's answer to Ann Summers, launches in the UK.   
The firm, which organises home parties selling lingerie, boudoir accessories and sex toys, say their ethos is to encourage women to explore their sexuality and teach them secrets to rekindle their relationships. 

Soft Paris reveal ten tips to allow British women to bring sexy French flair to the bedroom...

1. It's all in your walk

Why do English women hunch over, either shuffling or stomping? This is not seductive. Take the time to look around you, proudly, chin up/shoulders back, walking with one foot almost in front of the other, to undulate your hips provocatively. 

2. Be feline

Don't be a slobbery, noisy, bounding English bulldog. Imagine you’re an elegant cat - light, agile, graceful, quiet. Seduction is about understanding the effects of your movements and using them to your advantage.

 

Opt for stockings or suspenders and let him watch you put them on (and off) .

3. Be a lady

When a gentleman holds your coat out for you, do not take it from him, let him dress you. Allow doors to be held open and seats pulled out.
Be elegant, always. Don’t hold your glass of wine as if it's a pint of beer, French women lightly hold the top of the glass stem. Know how to handle all objects well.
 

4. Say goodbye to tightsInstead opt for stockings and suspenders, but make sure he is watching when you put them on - give him a show. Slip them on slowly with long strokes and finish off by snapping the elastic on the top of your thighs.

5. Use him

Although we could reach the zip on the back of our dresses if we really wanted to, allow him the privilege instead. It can be as seductive to dress a woman, as it is to undress her.

6. Give your lingerie drawer a makeover

Get rid of the Bridget Jones knickers and replace with black lace, ribbon trims, suspenders and waist cinching corsets. Your face should reveal what you’re wearing beneath your clothes, creating a subtle smile, the only clue to your your saucy secret.  

Wear black lace to seduce your man.

7. Go to bed dressed (or undressed) like a star

Forget the fleece pyjamas and bed socks. Opt for a sheer babydoll and a satin robe. It won’t stay on for long…

8. Be sweet

Wear scented and edible crème so your entire body is lickable. He’ll want to make you dessert

9. Flirt shamelessly

Even though he may be your husband, never stop seducing. At a dinner party, under the table, take his hand and slowly stroke it along your thigh, leading up to your suspenders. Send naughty texts while he is at work. Intimacy doesn’t have to stay at home…

10. A toy box is not just for the kids

Be playful, adventurous and uninhibited. Start by exploring and learning your own body, before moving on to your loved one. Intimate toys can create bedroom fireworks.

 

How to Flatter Your Body Shape With Lingerie

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If you’re not sure what’s the most flattering lingerie for your body shape, then we’ve got some great tips to help you choose the sexiest lingerie styles for your figure!

 Make sure you’re accentuating your best features. Whether they’re great legs, killer cleavage, or toned rear, accentuating your best features is your first step. Once you know what you want to show off (or hide!) you’re well on the way to being able to pick the right style of lingerie for you. Got a killer cleavage? Then make sure you show it off! An underwired bra is great for lifting the breasts, and depending on the style of bra it can also give you a terrific cleavage too! A balcony style bra is great for uplift and silhouette, whilst a plunge or push-up bra will give you oodles of cleavage! Basques and corsets are also great for giving your breasts lots of uplift, plus they also accentuate your waistline, and cover tummies too – no wonder we love them!

 Choose the most flattering combination. Whilst matching bra and briefs are the classic combination, they’re not always the most flattering choice for everyone. So if you’re looking for lingerie you can undress to impress with, and you’re conscious of your tummy or thighs, you might want to consider an alternative. A sexy chemise or babydoll are great for hiding bits! Depending on the style of the babydoll, the flowing skirt can be terrific for hiding tummies and tops of thighs – particularly if you steer clear of too sheer a material. We also love chemises for the same reason, in fact they generally cover up more than a babydoll, plus there are lots of sexy styles and fabrics to choose from – and they always look sexy!

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 Give some thought to what you’ll be wearing with your bra, basque or corset. If you’re buying a set they’ll normally come with briefs, shorties, thong or g-string. So think about what will be the most flattering style for your shape. Thongs or g-strings mean your rear is going to be a main focus if you’re wearing a bra, basque or corset! But if your rear is not one of your best assets, you may want to think about shorties, briefs or french knickers instead. Alternatively, a sexy way to draw attention away is to wear some sexy stockings or hold-ups to accentuate your legs. Although if you’re accentuating your cleavage with a killer bra, basque or corset we can pretty much guarantee all eyes are going to be drawn there anyway! But any excuse to wear stockings or hold-ups is a good one!

Lingerie Buying - How to flatter her figure, pick colors and more

Chocolate makes you fat, flowers die and great jewelry is a strain on the budget. Lingerie, on the other hand, is the gift that truly keeps on giving.

Here's how to buy it right.

 Pure flattery
Not every woman feels comfortable with baring her bottom in a sexy thong.
Put some thought into what body parts she feels most comfortable with and choose lingerie to complement.
A few ideas:

• Show off nice legs in something short like a baby doll or short chemise.
• Play up good cleavage with a halter or bustier style.
• Display toned arms with a camisole.

Have fun

Get her in touch with her inner child by choosing fun prints like cherries or clouds. Or appeal to her wilder side: animal prints, lace or bold colors like red are perfect.

Colors

Black, red and white (or off-white) look good on almost everyone. Blondes look great in pastels, and brunettes can carry off stronger colors like purple and emerald green. Redheads do best with greens, blues and earthy tones.

Soft touch

If you like touching the garment, she'll like wearing it. Velvet, silk and satin have lots of tactile appeal. If you're buying online, stick with fabrics that you already know what they feel like.

Get comfy

Casual, updated intimates come in styles like tank tops, bikinis and p.j.s. Look for cotton, flannel or other naturally cozy fabrics.

Sizes

The best way to find her correct size is to ask.
Alternatives: you can snoop around the lingerie drawer to find the sizes of stuff she already owns. Or you can guess (tricky territory -- Lingerie.com even promotes the amusing "fruit comparison" method for finding cup size.)

Presentation

Don't forget to wrap the lingerie (or have it professionally wrapped) with beautiful paper and a lots of lush tissue paper. You can get creative and make bags or baskets with related items, like a book of poetry, a bottle of champagne or great-smelling body products and candle.

Key styles

• Chemise - A straight gown that skims the body.
• Negligee - A loose, usually sheer, gown.Peignoir set - Negligee that includes a matching sheer robe.
• Babydoll - A short gown that fits around the bust, flares toward hemline.
• Pajamas - Pants and top, originally styled after men's p.j.s.
• Bustier - A usually strapless elongated bra that provides extra lift to the breasts.
• Camisole - A sleeveless top that can be paired with matching undies or worn under a jacket for work.
• Teddy - A one-piece style, similar to a bodysuit.
• Tap pants - Soft, very short version of boxing shorts.
• Thong - Provides coverage in the front of the panty with a thin strap in the back.

Enjoy!!!!!!

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