5 Ways to Dominate Your Guy in Bed

When you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. Though you may have already tried out costumes and other kinds of role playing, dominating your guy in bed is one that many women forget to do. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are five tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows? It might become the norm for you.

Show Him Who’s in Charge

From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sex. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, what you’re doing, etc. Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are.

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Playful Control 

You might want to hold down his wrists and you kiss him and you begin to do whatever you like to your partner. Hold him down hard so that you can show that you are able to control him. Some people might like to use some ties or silk scarves to actually bind their partners down. This doesn’t have to be an expert job, just the idea that you don’t want him to interfere will be hot for him. Or you might just want to put a blindfold on your partner so he has no idea what you’re doing to do next – very controlling.

 Dress the Part

You can also dress the part of a pseudo-Dominatrix by dressing in all black or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. Make sure that you feel confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume. Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control.

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Don’t Let Him Speak
Every time he tries to speak, make sure that you stop him. The best way to do this is to look right at him and to put your fingers on his mouth. You will want to also specifically tell him that you don’t want to hear him speak, right from the start. This will cause you to have control over what is happening and he will not be able to protest. Each time he talks, tell him to be quiet, if that seems right, or simply ignore him and remind him that you are the one who is in control.

 Tell Him What to Do

You will also be in control if you tell him what to do, when to do it, how hard to do it, etc. You need to be the one who is in complete control of all that is happening in the bedroom, from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.
Since men are typically the ones who are allowed to take control in the bedroom, it can be nice for a woman to take on this role from time to time. And you just might find that being in control is hotter for you too.

Seduction secrets of the French revealed

Seduction secrets of the French revealed: NO tights, NO bed socks and definitely NO pyjamas

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• Advice comes from Soft Paris, French equivalent of Ann Summers
• Company sells lingerie and sex toys and is set to launch in the UK
• Here they share their top ten tips on the art of seduction

When it comes to seduction, French women believe they have it down to a fine art.
And now they are set to share the secret of their success as Soft Paris, France's answer to Ann Summers, launches in the UK.   
The firm, which organises home parties selling lingerie, boudoir accessories and sex toys, say their ethos is to encourage women to explore their sexuality and teach them secrets to rekindle their relationships. 

Soft Paris reveal ten tips to allow British women to bring sexy French flair to the bedroom...

1. It's all in your walk

Why do English women hunch over, either shuffling or stomping? This is not seductive. Take the time to look around you, proudly, chin up/shoulders back, walking with one foot almost in front of the other, to undulate your hips provocatively. 

2. Be feline

Don't be a slobbery, noisy, bounding English bulldog. Imagine you’re an elegant cat - light, agile, graceful, quiet. Seduction is about understanding the effects of your movements and using them to your advantage.

 

Opt for stockings or suspenders and let him watch you put them on (and off) .

3. Be a lady

When a gentleman holds your coat out for you, do not take it from him, let him dress you. Allow doors to be held open and seats pulled out.
Be elegant, always. Don’t hold your glass of wine as if it's a pint of beer, French women lightly hold the top of the glass stem. Know how to handle all objects well.
 

4. Say goodbye to tightsInstead opt for stockings and suspenders, but make sure he is watching when you put them on - give him a show. Slip them on slowly with long strokes and finish off by snapping the elastic on the top of your thighs.

5. Use him

Although we could reach the zip on the back of our dresses if we really wanted to, allow him the privilege instead. It can be as seductive to dress a woman, as it is to undress her.

6. Give your lingerie drawer a makeover

Get rid of the Bridget Jones knickers and replace with black lace, ribbon trims, suspenders and waist cinching corsets. Your face should reveal what you’re wearing beneath your clothes, creating a subtle smile, the only clue to your your saucy secret.  

Wear black lace to seduce your man.

7. Go to bed dressed (or undressed) like a star

Forget the fleece pyjamas and bed socks. Opt for a sheer babydoll and a satin robe. It won’t stay on for long…

8. Be sweet

Wear scented and edible crème so your entire body is lickable. He’ll want to make you dessert

9. Flirt shamelessly

Even though he may be your husband, never stop seducing. At a dinner party, under the table, take his hand and slowly stroke it along your thigh, leading up to your suspenders. Send naughty texts while he is at work. Intimacy doesn’t have to stay at home…

10. A toy box is not just for the kids

Be playful, adventurous and uninhibited. Start by exploring and learning your own body, before moving on to your loved one. Intimate toys can create bedroom fireworks.

 

Art of striptease

Burlesque is all about the art of striptease but it isn't just for men. "It's more about a woman getting herself in the mood,"

Get in the Groove

Before you get down to business, "find that song that makes you sexy and spend some time dancing to it, Losing yourself in the moment of dancing can be every bit as sensual as a striptease."

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Waiting Room

Burlesque makes an event of sex, (read: your man) wait for your debut by seating him in one room and making an entrance from another.

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See Red

Mood lighting - turn down the lights, or swapping in red-tinted bulbs: "Red is such a warm and sexy color. It's a turn-on for everyone."

 

Suit Up

Burlesque is all about sparkling costumes, so adapt some sexiness at home. Ask yourself what you feel most sexy and confident in, and put that on! Burlesque dancers suggest lingerie, knee-high tights, corsets, heels to leave on during the deed. Insider tip: Layer up with gloves or a cami over a bra, so you have something to strip off...

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Just the Nip

For a bold burlesque beginner, dare to wear a staple of the art form: . The easiest way to get them spinning? "Put your arms in the air and bounce on your toes," (Even if this leads to hilarity,  "Laughter is a turn-on.")

 

Eye Love Burlesque

Always make eye contact with your partner: At first it can be intimidating, but it makes it so much more powerful when it happens.

 

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Take a Walk

Whether you choose to strip or not, break into burlesque with a slow, sensual walk toward your man. Walk with confidence, and let your hips rock.

 

 

Look, Don't Touch

Don’t let him touch you—at least for a little while. Letting him take in your body can be a powerful experience.

 

 

Blind Love

Too shy to strip in front of him just yet? Blind fold him, straddle him, and rub your body against his to give him a sense of what it's like to sit back and give you control.

 

 

Floor Him

Ready to take burlesque to the next level? Slide down on to your knees, arch your back into an almost-back bend and rock your hips up and down. Let him take it from there.

I hope this helps all you ladies!!!!