5 Ways to Dominate Your Guy in Bed

When you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. Though you may have already tried out costumes and other kinds of role playing, dominating your guy in bed is one that many women forget to do. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are five tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows? It might become the norm for you.

Show Him Who’s in Charge

From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sex. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, what you’re doing, etc. Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are.

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Playful Control 

You might want to hold down his wrists and you kiss him and you begin to do whatever you like to your partner. Hold him down hard so that you can show that you are able to control him. Some people might like to use some ties or silk scarves to actually bind their partners down. This doesn’t have to be an expert job, just the idea that you don’t want him to interfere will be hot for him. Or you might just want to put a blindfold on your partner so he has no idea what you’re doing to do next – very controlling.

 Dress the Part

You can also dress the part of a pseudo-Dominatrix by dressing in all black or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. Make sure that you feel confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume. Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control.

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Don’t Let Him Speak
Every time he tries to speak, make sure that you stop him. The best way to do this is to look right at him and to put your fingers on his mouth. You will want to also specifically tell him that you don’t want to hear him speak, right from the start. This will cause you to have control over what is happening and he will not be able to protest. Each time he talks, tell him to be quiet, if that seems right, or simply ignore him and remind him that you are the one who is in control.

 Tell Him What to Do

You will also be in control if you tell him what to do, when to do it, how hard to do it, etc. You need to be the one who is in complete control of all that is happening in the bedroom, from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.
Since men are typically the ones who are allowed to take control in the bedroom, it can be nice for a woman to take on this role from time to time. And you just might find that being in control is hotter for you too.

11 ways to turn him on without touching him

When it comes to seducing your man, there is one thing that’s true: if the chemistry’s there, the right touch is all it takes to take your private time to the sexiest level.

But, what about keeping the fire going without touch? It’s possible to build some serious heat and passion that way, making him so hot he won’t be able to wait to get at you. And maybe when all that tension bubbles over and you have no choice but to finally get it on, it may top some of the best sex you’ve ever had. After all, isn’t that how it usually goes when you satisfy an unbelievable craving?

 So try one of these ways to turn him on and build the tension for your next heat-filled night!

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• Peep show: Giving him a chance to watch as you undress or shower is a special show just for him. So next time you’re heading for an extra long shower or slipping out of your clothes after a long day, let him watch. He’ll be climbing the walls to touch you.

• Sexy notes, texts, or photos: When he can’t be near you, leaving him little reminders of the fact that you can’t wait to ravage him is a great way to keep him thinking of – and craving – you. Scribble him little notes or take some hot photos and leave them at his place or in his pocket. (Of course, you may want to spell out to your man that it’s meant for only his eyes).

• Midnight phone call: After a long day, his voice can do just the trick to put you to bed, especially if you can’t be together. Consider calling him in the middle of the night and tellingl him you are thinking of him. It may lead to a midnight phone sex session that may make him run over to your place to satisfy the urge.

• Musical seduction: We all know there are some songs that can do wonders to get you in the mood. Classic jams by Marvin Gaye and Al Green, or even Maxwell, Usher, Ne-Yo, or Tyrese define “sexy”. Try burning some of your favorites and slipping a CD into his bag or leaving it at his place. That’ll be the only soundtrack you need the next time you see each other.

• Blindfolded taste test: Cover your man’s eyes and sit him down to feed him tasty fruits and treats, and have him guess what they are. The mix of not knowing what’s coming next, tasting decadent flavors, and you feeding him will definitely excite him!

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• Wear his favorites to bed: Put on a sexy nightie and wear it to bed the next time he stays over. Watching that satin or silk on you will certainly be enough for him to scoop you in his arms and have his way with you.

• Move your body: Do some sexy stretches to soft music while he’s in the room. Watch him put the Blackberry aside or put down the remote just to pay attention to your every bend and curve. He’ll love it.

• Cybersexin’: This is the age of the Internet. So use it! Set up a date via instant messenger with your man and start describing what you would do to each other. Soon, your fingers will be burning up the keyboard as you get carried away with your fantasy – and you’ll be itching to try it all out.

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• Sexy movies: Movies with a steamy sex scene always make for good viewing time. Choose a few, like Disappearing Acts or Unfaithful, with some hot scenes and bring it over for a movie night. Now there’s a nice treat.

• Leave your scent: Is there a fragrance you wear that he can’t get enough of? Try wearing some the next time you see him, or leave a little on his pillow. That should make for some very sweet dreams for him.

• Erotic story time: Bookstores are filled with sexy books that make for quick reads and have some very satisfying scenes. Pick one up, maybe your favorite titles by Zane, and read a couple of chapters together each night. Soon, you’ll be aching to act out your own chapters!

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Lingerie Buying - How to flatter her figure, pick colors and more

Chocolate makes you fat, flowers die and great jewelry is a strain on the budget. Lingerie, on the other hand, is the gift that truly keeps on giving.

Here's how to buy it right.

 Pure flattery
Not every woman feels comfortable with baring her bottom in a sexy thong.
Put some thought into what body parts she feels most comfortable with and choose lingerie to complement.
A few ideas:

• Show off nice legs in something short like a baby doll or short chemise.
• Play up good cleavage with a halter or bustier style.
• Display toned arms with a camisole.

Have fun

Get her in touch with her inner child by choosing fun prints like cherries or clouds. Or appeal to her wilder side: animal prints, lace or bold colors like red are perfect.

Colors

Black, red and white (or off-white) look good on almost everyone. Blondes look great in pastels, and brunettes can carry off stronger colors like purple and emerald green. Redheads do best with greens, blues and earthy tones.

Soft touch

If you like touching the garment, she'll like wearing it. Velvet, silk and satin have lots of tactile appeal. If you're buying online, stick with fabrics that you already know what they feel like.

Get comfy

Casual, updated intimates come in styles like tank tops, bikinis and p.j.s. Look for cotton, flannel or other naturally cozy fabrics.

Sizes

The best way to find her correct size is to ask.
Alternatives: you can snoop around the lingerie drawer to find the sizes of stuff she already owns. Or you can guess (tricky territory -- Lingerie.com even promotes the amusing "fruit comparison" method for finding cup size.)

Presentation

Don't forget to wrap the lingerie (or have it professionally wrapped) with beautiful paper and a lots of lush tissue paper. You can get creative and make bags or baskets with related items, like a book of poetry, a bottle of champagne or great-smelling body products and candle.

Key styles

• Chemise - A straight gown that skims the body.
• Negligee - A loose, usually sheer, gown.Peignoir set - Negligee that includes a matching sheer robe.
• Babydoll - A short gown that fits around the bust, flares toward hemline.
• Pajamas - Pants and top, originally styled after men's p.j.s.
• Bustier - A usually strapless elongated bra that provides extra lift to the breasts.
• Camisole - A sleeveless top that can be paired with matching undies or worn under a jacket for work.
• Teddy - A one-piece style, similar to a bodysuit.
• Tap pants - Soft, very short version of boxing shorts.
• Thong - Provides coverage in the front of the panty with a thin strap in the back.

Enjoy!!!!!!

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How to Dress Sexy

Sometimes, it's the tiniest tweaks to what you wear — and bare — that can transform you into a bombshell. Just mix and match a few of these tips, and chances are those clothes won't stay on for long (nor will you want them to). 

 

Invest in some little black undies

You already know that a little black dress is a crucial component of any gal's wardrobe. Well, here's another essential: a barely-there lace bikini or thong in noir. Now you'll never be at a loss for what to wear under that little black dress, or be shy about showing it off.

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Put on clothes that say "pet me"

Silk, suede, cashmere, faux fur...unlike your usual cotton duds, these materials feel amazing against your skin and beg to be caressed. Talk about an easy way to get your guy's hands all over you. 

Lay on the eyeliner

Slightly smudged black eyeliner = smoldering sexpot. Put it on. Look in the mirror. Feel like doing something very, very bad tonight? We thought so.

Glam up your hands...

Manicures turn everyday mitts into instruments of mass seduction. Suddenly, every gesture you make seems mesmerizing; every object, person, or (ahem) body part you touch gets stroked in a more sensual way.

Transport yourself to the tropics

Wear a sprig of freesia or jasmine in your hair to feel incredibly island-sexy all day. Smells yummy and looks even yummier.

Wear fire-engine red

There's a reason why red was picked to paint stop signs: It's one very arresting color. Wear a red dress, red shoes, red anything, and it'll make you feel on fire.

Apply lipstick in front of him

This old-school sexy move is one few men can resist. How could they? After all, you're lavishing attention on your luscious lips.

Put on an animal print

Even the smallest accent — a leopard-print scarf, a zebra thong — will make you feel a little more feral.

Slip into a strappy tank top

Bra optional. Then watch him try to keep his eyes off you.

Try his clothes on for size

There's something about a woman lounging around in a man's white work shirt. Is it the stark contrast of a crisp, starched collar against bare skin? The fact that you're enticingly marking your territory? The way that, when open except for one strategically located button, the material skims thighs and covers the bare minimum of what needs covering and no more? We don't know, and frankly, we don't care. All we know is, it works!

Surprise him with a garter belt

Haven't worn one since your wedding? Then it's time to give him a second viewing. (It'll transform you into a sultry femme fatale from a forties movie; perhaps he'll want to role-play the hard-boiled private eye.) On your next night out, slide your guy's palm under your skirt just high enough so that he comes across your little surprise. A sexy mystery will begin!

Wear a candy necklace one night

To get him nibbling, tell him it's his dessert.

Untame your mane

Every once in awhile, don't bother blow-drying or styling your hair. Your slightly tousled tresses may tease out a little more of your wild side.

Wear heels...and nothing else

When getting undressed one evening, take off everything but your stilettos. Casually walk around as if you just haven't bothered to kick them off yet and see how long it takes him to pounce.

Slip into something comfortable

We know, full-length silk slips faded from women's wardrobes back in the 1940s. Here's why we should bring 'em back: First, they feel amazing under whatever you're wearing. Second, they look amazing in an Elizabeth Taylor, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof kind of way. Make sure it's the first thing he sees you put on in the morning — and the last thing you peel off come nighttime — to spark some Old Hollywood-style romance and feel like a silver screen siren.

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Art of striptease

Burlesque is all about the art of striptease but it isn't just for men. "It's more about a woman getting herself in the mood,"

Get in the Groove

Before you get down to business, "find that song that makes you sexy and spend some time dancing to it, Losing yourself in the moment of dancing can be every bit as sensual as a striptease."

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Waiting Room

Burlesque makes an event of sex, (read: your man) wait for your debut by seating him in one room and making an entrance from another.

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See Red

Mood lighting - turn down the lights, or swapping in red-tinted bulbs: "Red is such a warm and sexy color. It's a turn-on for everyone."

 

Suit Up

Burlesque is all about sparkling costumes, so adapt some sexiness at home. Ask yourself what you feel most sexy and confident in, and put that on! Burlesque dancers suggest lingerie, knee-high tights, corsets, heels to leave on during the deed. Insider tip: Layer up with gloves or a cami over a bra, so you have something to strip off...

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Just the Nip

For a bold burlesque beginner, dare to wear a staple of the art form: . The easiest way to get them spinning? "Put your arms in the air and bounce on your toes," (Even if this leads to hilarity,  "Laughter is a turn-on.")

 

Eye Love Burlesque

Always make eye contact with your partner: At first it can be intimidating, but it makes it so much more powerful when it happens.

 

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Take a Walk

Whether you choose to strip or not, break into burlesque with a slow, sensual walk toward your man. Walk with confidence, and let your hips rock.

 

 

Look, Don't Touch

Don’t let him touch you—at least for a little while. Letting him take in your body can be a powerful experience.

 

 

Blind Love

Too shy to strip in front of him just yet? Blind fold him, straddle him, and rub your body against his to give him a sense of what it's like to sit back and give you control.

 

 

Floor Him

Ready to take burlesque to the next level? Slide down on to your knees, arch your back into an almost-back bend and rock your hips up and down. Let him take it from there.

I hope this helps all you ladies!!!!