Showing posts with label black. Show all posts
Showing posts with label black. Show all posts

Thursday, 22 May 2014

How to choose the right lingerie color


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I think you’ve heard many times that men say the best present for them is a woman they love. This is true and lots of us use this idea to make the occasion the most amazing and memorable. It is easy and doesn’t cost you much but you need to choose some nice lingerie to gladden your beloved and drive him absolutely mad with your terrific look.
When selecting lingerie you should think twice and the first thing to consider is the feelings you wish to provoke. Do you want him to be tender? Passionate? Romantic? Admirable? When you know exactly what you need, set off for a lingerie store.

Red&burgundy. Red lingerie is thought to be the hottest and sexiest. Men lose their heads as soon as their beloved don something in these hues.
It’s nice-looking, tempting and dramatic. If you want the night to be filled with passion and crazy love-making this color is the perfect choice for your lingerie. Try any designs and styles, this color makes all of them look fantastic!

Black. When you want to look extremely sexy but at the same time highly romantic black color will work best. Black lingerie in this season can be made in various designs. You can choose the retro chic of the 50s with a high waist or a classic sexy satin set.

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 Super trendy sheer fabrics will look fantastic and very seductive – your smooth tender skin will be seen through it.

White. If you want to arouse some tender feelings leaving bright eroticism somewhere behind white or milky hues will become nice options.
These tints convey no sexual aggressiveness and you will rather look naïve and innocent wearing such a set.
Lace, embroidery and tiny embellishments will make white lingerie very exquisite and cute.
For some reason many women consider white to be the color for wedding lingerie only. This is completely wrong!
Besides, now retro-tendencies are in fashion and a set from snowy white lacy fabric in 50s style with a high waist will be a great romantic variant for you.

Beige. Women have different attitudes towards this color relating to lingerie. It looks pretty but has some disadvantages.
For example, it goes so close to the skin color that your wonderful curves will not be much emphasized, and as a result such sets are not as tempting as the ones made in other hues.

However, luxurious materials look great in this color, these include silk and satin. Contrast of textures looks interesting as well.
For instance, when you combine smooth fabrics with fleecy and velvety ones. Lace and ruches look too vulgar and you better opt for chic elegance.

Flesh colors for lingerie are great for one more reason: they are versatile and can be worn with nearly all types of clothing.
This is very important since modern designers pay so much attention to transparent materials.
 
Florals. Some women think floral prints or floral embroidery looks too simple and ordinarily; others consider them tasteless; but if you look carefully at the models which are offered to us now you’ll understand that all what was said before is a complete nonsense.


Mostly these designs include tiny romantic flower embellishments that look very cute and sentimental. But there are more radical variants too. For instance, a few huge and very bright real-looking flower embellishments on panties and bras.
So, when you go to select a lingerie set for a special night with your boyfriend or husband all you should do is to understand what image you wish to create. The rest of the things will be easy to determine. Good luck, ladies

Monday, 15 July 2013

How To Buy Lingerie For a Woman

Buying lingerie for a wife or girlfriend seems simple, but there are plenty of ways to screw it up. So we asked real-live women to tell us what they look for in their underwear.

 When you give a woman underwear she likes, it has a powerful effect. Specifically, it makes her want to have sex with you. Hot sex. And lots of it.

But keep in mind I said underwear she likes. It needs to be the right style, the right size, and the right color. It needs to come at the correct point in the relationship. And it needs to be given on an appropriate occasion. (Think her birthday is appropriate? Read on.) Mess up any of that, and you’re going to have one annoyed, self-conscious, and/or weirded-out lady on your hands.
It may sound complicated, but all you really need to do is follow a few simple pieces of advice in order to get major relationship points — and all that sex I mentioned.

 CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME
There’s really only one hard-and-fast rule about the right point in a relationship to get lingerie for a woman: You can only do it after you’ve slept with her. Do it any sooner and and the perv alert will instantly go off in her head. But that’s not the only thing that you have to keep in mind. How long you should wait after you’ve had sex depends on the woman in question, according to Amanda Horan Kennedy, psychotherapist and CEO of the lingerie line Sassybax. “If you’ve noticed that she always wears matching bra and panties, she’ll probably appreciate the gift early in the relationship.”
If, however, she tends to wear whatever happens to be clean (if she doesn’t even worry about it being clean, you’re gonna have worse problems than figuring out how to buy her underwear), wait at least a month. That way she won’t think you’re being critical of her current underwear selection or trying to turn her into someone she’s not.
And whatever you do, avoid giving her underthings on her birthday. “For a birthday, she wants something she can show off to her friends,” Kennedy says. “Plus, lingerie is as much a gift to the giver as it is to the recipient, so don’t make her special day about you.” All other occasions— New Year’s Eve, Valentine’s Day, Secretary’s Day — are game on

 DON’T BE CREEPY
You may feel sleazy when you’re surrounded by lingerie in a store. Well, that’s probably because you look sleazy surrounded by lingerie in a store. If you’re self-conscious about it, you may skulk around, avoid eye contact, and refuse help. But it’s not like you’re there to buy something for yourself or to eyeball the mannequins … uh, right? … so there’s no reason to feel weird. That’s why you should walk right up to a sales associate and say, “I’m looking for something for my girlfriend/wife.” She’ll take it from there.
Before you hit the mall, you need to figure out your lady’s size. The best way is to check the tags on pieces she already owns. “When in doubt, go larger than you think she is in the bra and smaller in the panty,” Kennedy suggests. Most women would rather believe you imagine they’re better endowed in the chest and more petite in the ass.
Just don’t use the person helping you as a size reference: “Her boobs are about as big as yours — what size are you?” The only thing creepier than a guy who keeps to himself in a lingerie store is a guy who flirts with the saleswoman.

FIT THE STYLE TO HER PERSONALITY
It’s been scientifically proven that men are incapable of distinguishing trashy from sexy, so please, please don’t go with your instincts when it comes to picking out underthings and buy those crotchless panties and tassled bra.
Instead, take her personality and personal style into consideration before choosing what to purchase. No clue what that means? Luckily, we have a handy little guide for you.
If she’s a jeans and t-shirts kind of girl: Stick with simple and elegant like a lace boyshort and matching camisole. (Don’t worry, the salesperson will know what all that means.) A set like this can basically double as pajamas, so a woman who’s never worn lingerie before won’t feel silly and uncomfortable.

If she’s wild in the bedroom: Got a sexpot on your hands? Get her something costume-y like a corset, thong, and garters. Just don’t get her an actual costume. Whips, cat ears, French maid aprons — these are the things that ruin what could have been a nice gift. (And besides, she’ll dress like that next Halloween anyway.)

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Oh, and only buy pieces with lots of hooks, clasps, ties, and buttons if you’re willing — and able — to undo them all.
 
If she’s shy or self-conscious about her body: When buying underwear for the little lady, your first instinct may be to get whatever is the most revealing. Well, if she’s shy, ignore that instinct and instead get a sheer teddy and full-coverage underwear. Women find it really difficult to get in the mood when they’re worried about how they look, so opting for something conservative — we’re talking in relative terms here — will actually work in your favor.
 
If you have no idea what she’s like: Hey, F-buddies enjoy gifts too. A silk or sateen balconette bra and a matching thong or brief are a sure thing. And even the low-end ones look luxe.
Look for one with minimal detailing — like a few bows or some lace trim.

 DON’T GET NUDE
“Nude is the most popular color of intimate apparel a woman buys herself,” Kennedy says. “So avoid giving that color as a gift.” It feels too practical and everyday. Plus, you run the risk of her thinking it’s shapewear (the modern day version of girdles) and getting offended.
Oh, and in case you haven’t noticed, flesh-colored undies also tend to turn women into mannequin-like genital-less beings. And you do not think that’s sexy … I hope.
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 BE CAREFUL WITH PASTELS
You’re going to see a lot of light shades on your shopping trip. It’s OK to go with a pale pink or a sky blue, but only in solids. Light colors in patterns — like flowers or polka dots — can look too little-girly.

SPEND MONEY ON RED
Many women love red or hot-pink — especially on Valentine’s Day — but be warned: If you’re not buying high-end stuff, lingerie in those colors can easily look cheap and tacky once it’s on.
So skip the mall and try a boutique, where everything will be of higher quality and save you from sending her a message that you want her to look trashy.

WHEN IN DOUBT, BET ON BLACK
It’s flattering next to all skin tones, it’s slimming, and it’s always classic while remaining sexy. Bottom line: It’ll look good wrapped in tissue paper when you present it, it’ll look good on her, and it’ll look good in a heap on the floor next to the bed.




Wednesday, 10 April 2013

5 Ways to Dominate Your Guy in Bed

When you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. Though you may have already tried out costumes and other kinds of role playing, dominating your guy in bed is one that many women forget to do. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are five tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows? It might become the norm for you.

Show Him Who’s in Charge

From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sex. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, what you’re doing, etc. Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are.

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Playful Control 

You might want to hold down his wrists and you kiss him and you begin to do whatever you like to your partner. Hold him down hard so that you can show that you are able to control him. Some people might like to use some ties or silk scarves to actually bind their partners down. This doesn’t have to be an expert job, just the idea that you don’t want him to interfere will be hot for him. Or you might just want to put a blindfold on your partner so he has no idea what you’re doing to do next – very controlling.

 Dress the Part

You can also dress the part of a pseudo-Dominatrix by dressing in all black or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. Make sure that you feel confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume. Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control.
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Don’t Let Him Speak
Every time he tries to speak, make sure that you stop him. The best way to do this is to look right at him and to put your fingers on his mouth. You will want to also specifically tell him that you don’t want to hear him speak, right from the start. This will cause you to have control over what is happening and he will not be able to protest. Each time he talks, tell him to be quiet, if that seems right, or simply ignore him and remind him that you are the one who is in control.

 Tell Him What to Do

You will also be in control if you tell him what to do, when to do it, how hard to do it, etc. You need to be the one who is in complete control of all that is happening in the bedroom, from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.
Since men are typically the ones who are allowed to take control in the bedroom, it can be nice for a woman to take on this role from time to time. And you just might find that being in control is hotter for you too.

Monday, 25 March 2013

Sexy Black Lingerie is the Must Have Staple for Any Woman's Wardrobe

Color can have many emotional effects, and also affect us physically and mentally. Of the many different colors and hues, black is one of the most powerful colors. With a variety of meanings, the qualities of black make it the perfect color for lingerie.

Many words can be used to describe the qualities that black conveys. Sophistication, luxury, elegance, sexiness and more, black is known as an intriguing color that can create a sense of mystery. Evoking emotion with an exotic and daring appeal, black has a strong and authoritative impact that cannot be denied.
In fashion, black is always considered a stylish and versatile color. Black is also a popular color because of the visually slimming effect that it can have. Thought of as the most irresistible color for lingerie by many men, sexy black lingerie is an important staple in every wardrobe.
With a range of styles to choose from, at Nya Lingerie you will find the finest quality black lingerie.


Cleo Babydoll   
 A beautiful push up bra with ribbon detail and matching lacy thong available separately.

Carmen Black Bra 
In soft cobweb lace with satin ties, this sexy lingerie set complements the natural shape of your body. The teddy is cut in a monokini style with a string back and satin ribbon detail to the hips and underbust


Leopard mesh and lycra bustier with underwire cups and neckline panel with halter tie straps. Bustier features elasticized waist, boning, center back hook and eye closure and attached garters.
Leopard Mesh Bustier


These exciting options are just a sample of the selection of the wonderful black intimate apparel. There are a number of different pieces in black to choose from, including an assortment of bras, corsets, thongs, g-strings, tangas and much more. Be sure to browse more of the stunning collections of rich lingerie choices that are available from Nya Lingerie



Wednesday, 13 March 2013

Buying Tips for Men

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Buying your Lady the perfect lingerie  - Let us help you !

- Know Your Lady's Size
We all know its difficult to select a well-fitting lingerie set based on guesswork - a smaller or larger size is likely to offend,  so do your homework & equip yourself with some sizes. Asking her upfront will give the game away so its a good idea to have a sneaky peek in her drawers and check the labels. If you cant do this, perhaps ask her best friend who will probably know. By size, we mean both bra & knickers.
As a general rule, dress size is best for choosing the correct knicker size. For the Bra, labels are normally located on the band at the back where it fastens. You are looking for a band size eg. 30, 32, 34 etc AND a cup size eg. A, B, C etc. Check a few items & write them down or save them in your phone.

 - Style & Shape
Whats her style ? Is she a fashionista, vintage dresser or classic ? Does she mainly wear black or colours? Does she wear thongs or briefs? Getting this right will show how well you know her. The same rule applies to bras. Does she wear padded or unpadded & sheer? 
Remember, presenting a lady with a thong who generally wears briefs or boyshorts will be met with " but when have you ever seen me wear a thong? " expression. However if she more adventurous, maybe try a peekaboo - fun for her & for you!  But ultimately do remember this gift is for her, as much as you will undoubtedly enjoy her in it.  She should want to wear it, whether just in the bedroom or under her day or evening wear.
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 - Fabric
Women tend to buy practical lingerie, so selecting something more glamorous will earn you points! Luxurious fabrics such as silk and lace feel good to touch as well as feeling amazing on her skin. This in turn will make her feel treasured and sexy.

- Finishing Touches
Stockings, tights or holdups ? For a sexy look always include some stockings or hold ups with your gift. Some ladies have never worn stockings & might require a little encouragement. Buying a matching suspender belt with her lingerie set is a good opportunity to treat her with a full set that she might not normally afford.

Remember this is a really special treat with lots of potential for naughty fun! Impress her with your new found lingerie knowledge and give her a gorgeous gift that fits perfectly in a colour & style she loves and feels amazing in.

Follow these guidelines & you cant go wrong!
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Visit www.nyalingerie.com 

Thursday, 28 February 2013

Sexy Ways to Strip for Your Man



Usually, you're both so psyched to get to the good stuff that you rip off each other's things and hit the sheets.But stretching out the process makesit hotter, heres how you can give him a full on strip tease.

Slip Into Something Sexier


When selecting your outfit, dress in layers so you'll have more to peel off. And make sure you're comfortable in whatever you have on. Of course stilettos and knee-high boots are wicked foxy, and if you feel confident in them, great. But being in bare feet and one of his button-downs (you can slowly undo those buttons...) is just as alluring. 

Set Your Stage


Dim the lights or toss a sheer scarf over your lamps. Arrange a chair for him to sit on where you'll also have space to strip a few feet away (you want to be back far enough that he can see all of you, and you're just out of his reach). To initiate things, either tell him, "I've got a little something for you," or simply lead him to the room and push him down on chair. 


Hit Play

Pick a song that has a strong beat but isn’t too fast, and makes you feel vixen-ish. A few good bets: "S&M" by Rihanna, "Dirty Laundry" by Bittersweet, and "Crazy" by Aerosmith.

Sources: Catherine Smith, Natasha Zee




Walk the Walk
Begin your show with a slow, seductive strut. After sitting him down, take your time turning around and striding away from him. Place one foot directly in front of the other, and drag your feet for a come-hither effect.

Source: Catherine Smith



Give Yourself a Hand
Always pay attention to what you're doing with her hands: Glide your fingertips up and down the sides of your body, stroke your neck and collarbone (it's smart to focus on the sexiest parts of your body), tug a little at the hem of your shirt or nightie. Move your hands smoothly and lightly, and remember that using your fingertips looks way more seductive than "wiping" yourself with your whole palm.

Source: Catherine Smith


Whip Your Hair
If you have long locks, play with them and flip them around whenever you have the chance. Guys go berserk for this, because flowing hair is such a feminine attribute. They’ll imagine it brushing against their skin, and running their fingers through it.

Source: Catherine Smith



Mesmer-Eyes Him
Every so often during your strip-down, catch his gaze for a few seconds. Eye contact conveys confidence, and that's what will sell the tease.

Source: Catherine Smith



Amp the Anticipation
Play up the article of clothing that you're about to take off, so that he senses what's coming before it happens. Like, if you're going to remove your slip, slide it up and down your body first. Then once you've removed it, caress the body part you've just revealed, drawing attention to the fact that it's now nude.

Source: Natasha Zee

  

Turn Your Shirt Into Handcuffs

Face your guy, bend over at the waist, and graze your hands down the front of your legs. While you're in this forward fold, start to take off your top—but instead of removing it all the way, leave it rolled at your wrists. (Note: this only works with a sleeveless or short-sleeved shirt.) Twist your right hand once, creating loose "handcuffs" around your wrists. Rise back up and lift your arms over your head. After a moment, either fling it at him or just toss it to the ground, like you're done with it.

Source: Catherine Smith, Natasha Zee
- See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-9


Turn Your Shirt Into Handcuffs
Face your guy, bend over at the waist, and graze your hands down the front of your legs. While you're in this forward fold, start to take off your top—but instead of removing it all the way, leave it rolled at your wrists. (Note: this only works with a sleeveless or short-sleeved shirt.) Twist your right hand once, creating loose "handcuffs" around your wrists. Rise back up and lift your arms over your head. After a moment, either fling it at him or just toss it to the ground, like you're done with it.

Source: Catherine Smith, Natasha Zee




Arch Your Back
It accentuates your fine female curves. Simple, but so, so powerful.

Source: Catherine Smith


Roll Your Booty
Men freaking love this: Stand with your feet slightly farther apart than shoulder-width, knees bent. Throw your shoulders back, put your hands on your knees, and lean your weight into your hands. Circle your butt around 360 degrees or in a figure-eight shape. You can also do the booty roll on all fours—just remember to separate your knees.

Source: Catherine Smith


Move Between Levels
Throughout the tease, transition between standing, getting down on your hands and knees, and then sliding onto your stomach. It's more interesting for him to watch if you switch things up, plus it lets him view your hot bod from all angles.

Source: Catherine Smith





Get a Leg Up
Once you're on your stomach, flip onto your back, extend your arms straight out on the ground over your head (this will anchor you down), and lift your legs up in the air. Think about creating beautiful lines with your stems: point your feet, cross them at the ankle, flutter your legs, open into a straddle-style split facing him...and if you’re feeling bold, look at him while you slowly caress your V-zone. To get up, roll over onto all fours, sit back on your feet (they should be flat on the floor, knees together), and then stand one leg at a time.

Source: Catherine Smith



Unleash Your Breasts
Turn your back to him, slip off one bra strap, then the other. After a second or two, unclasp it, and pivot to face him, holding your bra against your boobs with your hands. Turn back around and let your bra fall to the floor, so you're drawing out the moment of reveal as much as possible.

Source: Catherine Smith



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Hit the Wall
Put your back against the wall, and lift your arms above your head. Slink your body up and down a few times, then push yourself away from the wall and walk slowly towards him.

Source: Catherine Smith






Corrupt a Chair
Sit sideways on an armless chair, so that the back of it is against the left side of your body. Lower your torso down to rest on the seat, as you hold onto the back of the chair with your left hand for support. Lift your legs in the air, and do some pretty kicks. Some simpler, sexy things to do with a chair: Put one leg up on the seat, raise your heel as though you were wearing stilettos, and caress your leg. Pop your butt out every time you sit down and get up. Sit on the seat of the chair and flip that hair!

Sources: Catherine Smith, Natasha Zee



Ditch Your Undies
Stand with your feet parallel, hook your thumbs into the waistband of your panties, bend your knees, and slither your underwear down your legs like a snake. Let them drop to your ankles. Step out of one side, and then with your other leg, kick them in his direction.

Source: Catherine Smith



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Sloooow It Down
Never rush a striptease. Think of the process like creating pictures: He’s going to want to remember these images of you getting naked for him, so he can visualize them later on. The slower you go, the easier it will be for him to take a mental snapshot of one of the hottest moments of his life.

Source: Catherine Smith


Touch Him Strategically
It can be torturously sexy to not let him lay a hand on you the whole time. Or touch him at key moments to build up the tease. Occasionally, brush his arms, mess up his hair, sit on his lap for a second, or have him help you undress (for example, plant your foot on the chair in between his legs so he can unroll your thigh-high stocking). Get more affectionate as the tease progresses—by the end he literally won't be able to resist you.

Sources: Catherine Smith, Natasha Zee
 





Hit Play

Pick a song that has a strong beat but isn’t too fast, and makes you feel vixen-ish. A few good bets: "S&M" by Rihanna, "Dirty Laundry" by Bittersweet, and "Crazy" by Aerosmith.

Sources: Catherine Smith, Natasha Zee
- See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-3
 

But stretching out the process makes sex hotter. Here's how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more fun.

By Molly Triffin

- See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1

Slip Into Something Sexier

When selecting your outfit, dress in layers so you'll have more to peel off. And make sure you're comfortable in whatever you have on. Of course stilettos and knee-high boots are wicked foxy, and if you feel confident in them, great. But being in bare feet and one of his button-downs (you can slowly undo those buttons...) is just as alluring.
- See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1

But stretching out the process makes sex hotter. Here's how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more fun.

By Molly Triffin

- See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1







































But stretching out the process makes sex hotter. Here's how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more fun. - See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1
But stretching out the process makes sex hotter. Here's how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more fun. - See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1



But stretching out the process makes sex hotter. Here's how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more fun. - See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1



Slip Into Something Sexier

When selecting your outfit, dress in layers so you'll have more to peel off. And make sure you're comfortable in whatever you have on. Of course stilettos and knee-high boots are wicked foxy, and if you feel confident in them, great. But being in bare feet and one of his button-downs (you can slowly undo those buttons...) is just as alluring.
- See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1

Slip Into Something Sexier

When selecting your outfit, dress in layers so you'll have more to peel off. And make sure you're comfortable in whatever you have on. Of course stilettos and knee-high boots are wicked foxy, and if you feel confident in them, great. But being in bare feet and one of his button-downs (you can slowly undo those buttons...) is just as alluring.
- See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1
But stretching out the process makes sex hotter. Here's how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more fun. - See more at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-strip-for-your-man#slide-1