Five easy ways to please your man

We know you wanna make your guy happy as much as you can, so we got experts to dish advice on how you can please your man.
These tips are so simple, you'll be able to execute ASAP and soon your dude will be calling you the best girlfriend ever.

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Leave Him Alone
Not all the time. But when he first comes home from work, or when he's really stressed out about something, sometimes what a guy wants most is to be quiet and by himself for a little while. When a guy's lady recognizes this and gives him that space, he notices and is grateful.

Let Him Be in Charge
Let's face it. Guys like to feel like they're in control. Try letting go of your need to be right (even when you probably are). Sometimes you just need to let him pick the route, the restaurant, or the movie without interjecting your "better" idea. This will make him feel like he's in charge and that you trust him.

Give Him A Sexy Surprise
Maybe putting on lingerie isn't your thing. No sweat, guys don't need that all the time. But try going outside your comfort zone every now and then. Meet him out for a drink in an especially little LBD, or surprise him with some sexy underwear. He'll know you're doing it just for him.

Lend Him an Ear
It's tempting to take control when your dude is in a rut, but pause for a second. Try not to solve his problem or tell him how you would do it if you were in his shoes. Let him talk, listen, and be supportive. Jumping in to fix rips his masculinity away, and puts you, instead, in that role. What he wants is some feminine nurturing, so listen, give him a hug, and let him vent.

Make It Clear You Want Him
You don't need to be overtly sexual to let your guy know you want him right then and there. Try subtle things like momentarily slipping your hand into his crotch during the drive home, or at a movie, or under the table at dinner. Him knowing how sexually attracted you are to him will please him like no oth

How to buy lingerie for your Girlfriend/Wife

Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been with your girl for a while, buying her nice underwear is an excellent way to keep the attraction alive. Plus, beautiful lingerie is up there with spa days and Chanel nail polish as fool-proof she-will-love-them-every time presents…if done right,that is.
Women’s underwear is oftentimes a “no-man’s land,” riddled with cheap diamantes and itchy synthetic gussets, so if you can get the subtle art of the matching set down, there are many, many rewards for those brave enough to try.
Our “brief” pointers will help you navigate the lingerie section and possibly emerge as the Patron Saint of Panties (a moniker not to be uttered in public).

What You Want Vs. What She Wants

There are one or two brands of lingerie who have carved a niche as “women’s lingerie men can buy.” However, most of this stuff will make your girlfriend feel too skinny, too fat, halfway between a discount stripper-gram and a badly wrapped Christmas present.
Sure, you are made to feel like you are welcome in those stores, but there’s a big difference between underwear men find sexy and underwear that women find sexy.
Women are admittedly complicated, they can tell precisely what you bought for them, and what you really just bought for yourself, and guess which one she’s going to appreciate more? Sacrifice reaps its own rewards my friend. 

You Get What You Pay For

Unfortunately, lingerie is like jewelry in that without exception, the pricier it is, the better. Women are not materialistic, it’s just that unfortunately most of them have a lot of garbage body issues that can be triggered by crappy cuts and cheap materials.
On the other hand, super high-end women’s lingerie has a magical effect on the feminine silhouette, kind of like beer goggles but classier. It will make your girl look shapely, proportionate, supported and like the very sexiest version of herself. And because that makes her feel really good, soon you’ll understand the true meaning of “sexy underwear.”

The 3-to-1 Ratio

Unlike the inside out forwards/back wards rule that gives men up to four wears before they wash their underwear (or so we heard), women rotate theirs on a daily basis. On the other hand, bras get a few more wears.
To make a set last and to look like The Most Insightful Man In The World, buy her three matching pairs of panties for every bra. This isn’t more ‘Sensitive New Age Guy’ than remembering her mum’s birthday, but is definitely more likely to get you laid.

Ask the Experts

No one thinks you look like a pervert shopping for women’s underwear. If anything, you’ll look all sensitive and switched-on and emotionally sophisticated.
Ask the salesperson for help, she has dealt with guys in your situation before and is another lifeline in your quest to buy something your girl will really love, which you will then of course love for altogether different reasons.

Figure Out What Fits

How? By looking at the size tags on her lingerie before you go. For her bra size, you will need a number and a letter: The number for her size around the chest (it should be about the same as her t-shirt size) and the letter for her actual breast/”cup” size.
Thankfully, women’s underwear sizing actually has some coherence in between brands, so if she’s a size 12 in the butt and a 10B in the cup, that’s all you need to look for, no holding it up and squinting required.

Pick Based On Her Personality

The trickiest part is choosing a style that you are both going to find attractive. Again, this is where high-end stores will increase your success rate because most of their stuff is catnip to females.
You still have to put some thought into your girls’ personal style when choosing though. If she’s a girly-girl, stick with the bows, frills and polka dots kind of stuff. If she’s an alternative kind of girl, take some cues from the “boudoir”-style choices of burlesque dancer Dita Von Teese. If she’s the dark, mysterious type, try some secret-agent style garters and corsets in black lace.
Most people look at clothes in stores the same as they already have, so if you know she has a favorite, you can always use this style as a guide to choose a similar design and play it on the safe side.

Do’s & Don’ts

Here are some tips only a woman can tell you:

• Don’t buy a big girl a tiny thong.
• Check out the negligees while you’re there.
• Don’t buy anything with cheeky slogans printed on them.
• Anything with bells or ornaments or “costume” lingerie as it’s called, is incredibly impractical for daily wear: buy at your own risk.
• Do take stores up on any offers of free gift-wrapping.
• Don’t buy anything that doesn’t have a cotton gusset (you don’t want to know why).
• Do ask for advice from the saleswomen (we already said this but really, it’s iron-clad).

Keep The Receipt

This one should be obvious. ‘Cause it is such an intimate item, there’s always the chance that it might not fit, and don’t be offended if she just plain doesn’t like it.
You should still get brownie points for making the effort (if you don’t, perhaps you should find someone else to buy lingerie for), and when she goes to exchange it, you get a first-hand opportunity to see what she would pick for herself.

Summary

While buying lingerie for your girlfriend has bonus points for you, to be effective, it really needs to be about your girl. Think of it as, by buying them for her, you’ll effectively be buying them for yourself, if that’s any help. So be sensitive to what your girl already likes, get her size right and stick to the nice stuff.
Most of all, your most fail-proof rule of thumb should be to choose something as beautiful as she is, then you’ll most likely be handsomely rewarded.

 

5 Ways to Dominate Your Guy in Bed

When you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. Though you may have already tried out costumes and other kinds of role playing, dominating your guy in bed is one that many women forget to do. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are five tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows? It might become the norm for you.

Show Him Who’s in Charge

From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sex. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, what you’re doing, etc. Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are.

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Playful Control 

You might want to hold down his wrists and you kiss him and you begin to do whatever you like to your partner. Hold him down hard so that you can show that you are able to control him. Some people might like to use some ties or silk scarves to actually bind their partners down. This doesn’t have to be an expert job, just the idea that you don’t want him to interfere will be hot for him. Or you might just want to put a blindfold on your partner so he has no idea what you’re doing to do next – very controlling.

 Dress the Part

You can also dress the part of a pseudo-Dominatrix by dressing in all black or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. Make sure that you feel confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume. Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control.

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Don’t Let Him Speak
Every time he tries to speak, make sure that you stop him. The best way to do this is to look right at him and to put your fingers on his mouth. You will want to also specifically tell him that you don’t want to hear him speak, right from the start. This will cause you to have control over what is happening and he will not be able to protest. Each time he talks, tell him to be quiet, if that seems right, or simply ignore him and remind him that you are the one who is in control.

 Tell Him What to Do

You will also be in control if you tell him what to do, when to do it, how hard to do it, etc. You need to be the one who is in complete control of all that is happening in the bedroom, from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.
Since men are typically the ones who are allowed to take control in the bedroom, it can be nice for a woman to take on this role from time to time. And you just might find that being in control is hotter for you too.

Buying Tips for Men

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Buying your Lady the perfect lingerie  - Let us help you !

- Know Your Lady's Size
We all know its difficult to select a well-fitting lingerie set based on guesswork - a smaller or larger size is likely to offend,  so do your homework & equip yourself with some sizes. Asking her upfront will give the game away so its a good idea to have a sneaky peek in her drawers and check the labels. If you cant do this, perhaps ask her best friend who will probably know. By size, we mean both bra & knickers.
As a general rule, dress size is best for choosing the correct knicker size. For the Bra, labels are normally located on the band at the back where it fastens. You are looking for a band size eg. 30, 32, 34 etc AND a cup size eg. A, B, C etc. Check a few items & write them down or save them in your phone.

 - Style & Shape
Whats her style ? Is she a fashionista, vintage dresser or classic ? Does she mainly wear black or colours? Does she wear thongs or briefs? Getting this right will show how well you know her. The same rule applies to bras. Does she wear padded or unpadded & sheer? 
Remember, presenting a lady with a thong who generally wears briefs or boyshorts will be met with " but when have you ever seen me wear a thong? " expression. However if she more adventurous, maybe try a peekaboo - fun for her & for you!  But ultimately do remember this gift is for her, as much as you will undoubtedly enjoy her in it.  She should want to wear it, whether just in the bedroom or under her day or evening wear.

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 - Fabric
Women tend to buy practical lingerie, so selecting something more glamorous will earn you points! Luxurious fabrics such as silk and lace feel good to touch as well as feeling amazing on her skin. This in turn will make her feel treasured and sexy.

- Finishing Touches
Stockings, tights or holdups ? For a sexy look always include some stockings or hold ups with your gift. Some ladies have never worn stockings & might require a little encouragement. Buying a matching suspender belt with her lingerie set is a good opportunity to treat her with a full set that she might not normally afford.

Remember this is a really special treat with lots of potential for naughty fun! Impress her with your new found lingerie knowledge and give her a gorgeous gift that fits perfectly in a colour & style she loves and feels amazing in.

Follow these guidelines & you cant go wrong!

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Good Girlfriend Behavior: Do This, Not That

 Good Girlfriend Behavior: Do This, Not That

Every girl knows the golden relationship rules — like tell your guy how great he is in bed, not how amazing your ex was. But there are other guidelines that aren't so obvious. Behold, the ultimate cheat sheet. 

 

Wearing Lingerie

 

Do This: Wear a matching lace bra and underwear.
Sets that come in white or pastel colors — think lavender or light pink — give him a little peek at what's in store while you still look feminine and innocent. 

 

 

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Wearing Lingerie

Not That: Wear something he needs an engineering degree to get off of you.
Teddies and little nighties with ties, buckles, and bows are hot, but he’ll be too busy trying to figure out how to get you out of it to notice how amazing you look.

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Failing to Orgasm

Do This: Let him know you still enjoyed it.
Giving him a deep kiss when the deed is done shows him that, even though you didn't reach the finish line, it still felt damn good. To up your odds of peaking next time, guide his hand. He'll appreciate the help. 

 

Failing to Orgasm

Not That: Fake it.
He will think everything was satisfactory and won't learn what it takes to actually get you off. Now that would be seriously tragic.

 

 

Visiting His Parents

 

Do This: Bring them something homemade.
Showing up with freshly baked oatmeal-raisin cookies shows you spent time thinking about them instead of just swinging by the store. Plus, his mom will be thrilled her son's babe can bake.

 

Visiting His Parents

Not That: Bestow flowers or anything pricey.
Fresh-cut flowers require the hostess to duck into the kitchen to arrange them, and over-the-top gifts (such as a crazy-expensive bottle of wine or a crystal vase) are, well, over the top.

Going Away for the Weekend

Do This: Go to the beach or the mountains.
In the beginning of a relationship, take an adventure-based trip, like going surfing or snowboarding. The adrenaline rush will boost your bond, and a built-in activity safeguards against awkward downtime.

Going Away for the Weekend

Not That: Check in to a sleepy bed and breakfast.
Staring at each other over fresh coffee and croissants and going antiquing all day may sound romantic to you, but these kinds of esoteric activities bore most men to death.

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