Have an Appealing Look for Your Spouse - Wear Sexy Lingerie

Have an Appealing Look for Your Spouse - Wear Sexy Lingerie 

 

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Every woman wants to have a sexy and appealing look for someone. Having a sexy look has a very strong relation with your mental state. Sometimes you may have to use some tools to turn yourself on. It is very well said by someone “If you want look sexy, you have to think sexy”. What are your thoughts that how you can look sexy? First of all do something which should make you to feel sexy and then you can look sexy. If you can’t develop these thought then even you would be wearing some very attractive and sexy stuff but your actions wouldn’t match your mental state. Sexy Lingerie is something which can turn your feelings on and can setup a stage to get these feelings. It works like a signal or the cue that has ability to turn the parts of your brain on. It is like an indication for your spouse that you want him to make love.

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For instance you like to take shower before you make love with your partner. If at some evening you are going to have a bath so your spouse must understand that you are in a mood and he must be ready to enjoy a beautiful night with you. Similarly, if you are going out with your partner and you put the sexy lingerie on then it must be a sign that you are ready to make this night a special one for your partner. Sexy lingerie must put you in the best mood and best frame of mind. Let’s take an example that how wearing such kind stuff can turn you on. For example you are a working woman and when you get back to your home, you want to change your dress at very first place. You want to forget everything about your daily routine work. When you take off your formal office dress and wear the loose trousers and T-shirt, you feel much relaxed. This is how your dress affects your mental state. Same is the case with sexy lingerie. When you slip into it, it makes you feel sexier and shows off the signs to your spouse that you are turned on.

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There are some women who are more than confident that they look pretty and sexy, irrespective of the stuff they wear. Some others would feel that they only need to have a great coat of armor which should be made of sexy lingerie to be a bit warm. Selection of the right kind of lingerie would really depend on the person’s nature. Some would like to get babydoll nightie to look amazing at some special night. Peignoir would be the choice of those who want to show off their skin through the beautifully designed net. There are many other types of lingerie which can be the choice of the ladies to look sexier. These types may include Teddy, Corset, Bustier, Chemise, and body-stocking. The best thing is that you should know what type of lingerie which can give you the sexiest look for your spouse.

 

How to buy lingerie for your Girlfriend/Wife

Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been with your girl for a while, buying her nice underwear is an excellent way to keep the attraction alive. Plus, beautiful lingerie is up there with spa days and Chanel nail polish as fool-proof she-will-love-them-every time presents…if done right,that is.
Women’s underwear is oftentimes a “no-man’s land,” riddled with cheap diamantes and itchy synthetic gussets, so if you can get the subtle art of the matching set down, there are many, many rewards for those brave enough to try.
Our “brief” pointers will help you navigate the lingerie section and possibly emerge as the Patron Saint of Panties (a moniker not to be uttered in public).

What You Want Vs. What She Wants

There are one or two brands of lingerie who have carved a niche as “women’s lingerie men can buy.” However, most of this stuff will make your girlfriend feel too skinny, too fat, halfway between a discount stripper-gram and a badly wrapped Christmas present.
Sure, you are made to feel like you are welcome in those stores, but there’s a big difference between underwear men find sexy and underwear that women find sexy.
Women are admittedly complicated, they can tell precisely what you bought for them, and what you really just bought for yourself, and guess which one she’s going to appreciate more? Sacrifice reaps its own rewards my friend. 

You Get What You Pay For

Unfortunately, lingerie is like jewelry in that without exception, the pricier it is, the better. Women are not materialistic, it’s just that unfortunately most of them have a lot of garbage body issues that can be triggered by crappy cuts and cheap materials.
On the other hand, super high-end women’s lingerie has a magical effect on the feminine silhouette, kind of like beer goggles but classier. It will make your girl look shapely, proportionate, supported and like the very sexiest version of herself. And because that makes her feel really good, soon you’ll understand the true meaning of “sexy underwear.”

The 3-to-1 Ratio

Unlike the inside out forwards/back wards rule that gives men up to four wears before they wash their underwear (or so we heard), women rotate theirs on a daily basis. On the other hand, bras get a few more wears.
To make a set last and to look like The Most Insightful Man In The World, buy her three matching pairs of panties for every bra. This isn’t more ‘Sensitive New Age Guy’ than remembering her mum’s birthday, but is definitely more likely to get you laid.

Ask the Experts

No one thinks you look like a pervert shopping for women’s underwear. If anything, you’ll look all sensitive and switched-on and emotionally sophisticated.
Ask the salesperson for help, she has dealt with guys in your situation before and is another lifeline in your quest to buy something your girl will really love, which you will then of course love for altogether different reasons.

Figure Out What Fits

How? By looking at the size tags on her lingerie before you go. For her bra size, you will need a number and a letter: The number for her size around the chest (it should be about the same as her t-shirt size) and the letter for her actual breast/”cup” size.
Thankfully, women’s underwear sizing actually has some coherence in between brands, so if she’s a size 12 in the butt and a 10B in the cup, that’s all you need to look for, no holding it up and squinting required.

Pick Based On Her Personality

The trickiest part is choosing a style that you are both going to find attractive. Again, this is where high-end stores will increase your success rate because most of their stuff is catnip to females.
You still have to put some thought into your girls’ personal style when choosing though. If she’s a girly-girl, stick with the bows, frills and polka dots kind of stuff. If she’s an alternative kind of girl, take some cues from the “boudoir”-style choices of burlesque dancer Dita Von Teese. If she’s the dark, mysterious type, try some secret-agent style garters and corsets in black lace.
Most people look at clothes in stores the same as they already have, so if you know she has a favorite, you can always use this style as a guide to choose a similar design and play it on the safe side.

Do’s & Don’ts

Here are some tips only a woman can tell you:

• Don’t buy a big girl a tiny thong.
• Check out the negligees while you’re there.
• Don’t buy anything with cheeky slogans printed on them.
• Anything with bells or ornaments or “costume” lingerie as it’s called, is incredibly impractical for daily wear: buy at your own risk.
• Do take stores up on any offers of free gift-wrapping.
• Don’t buy anything that doesn’t have a cotton gusset (you don’t want to know why).
• Do ask for advice from the saleswomen (we already said this but really, it’s iron-clad).

Keep The Receipt

This one should be obvious. ‘Cause it is such an intimate item, there’s always the chance that it might not fit, and don’t be offended if she just plain doesn’t like it.
You should still get brownie points for making the effort (if you don’t, perhaps you should find someone else to buy lingerie for), and when she goes to exchange it, you get a first-hand opportunity to see what she would pick for herself.

Summary

While buying lingerie for your girlfriend has bonus points for you, to be effective, it really needs to be about your girl. Think of it as, by buying them for her, you’ll effectively be buying them for yourself, if that’s any help. So be sensitive to what your girl already likes, get her size right and stick to the nice stuff.
Most of all, your most fail-proof rule of thumb should be to choose something as beautiful as she is, then you’ll most likely be handsomely rewarded.

 

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Guidelines for Guys: What is Sexy Lingerie?

One person can find a garment like crotchless panties sexy while someone else will find them disgusting. One may find sheer lingerie sexy while another prefers lace. So, how does a husband navigate this sexy lingerie minefield when trying to buy their wife a sexy piece of lingerie? Here are a few guidelines. 

 First, black is always safe. The color is sexy, but also slimming. Everyone feels good in black. Next, err on the more conservative side with your first purchase. Don’t start with chopper bras and crotchless panties. 

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Begin with a sexy yet pretty negligee with lace and matching panties. Float that balloon first. Based on the reaction and feedback, you can move up the risqué meter to more sheer and more revealing items. And, of course, there are costumes, but that should come later. 

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What to Look for When Shopping
It’s a lot easier if you know her sizes. If you don’t, take a look in her lingerie drawer and check the label on a bra—the size should be right there—34B, 38DD, something like that. Panties are in sizes usually from XS through XXL. Sometimes they’re numerical, ranging from about 5-10. You might also take a peak at brand names—especially on items she wears all the time. 

Now you’ve got the critical info—what to buy? Well, if you see quite a few of the same brand, you can take it up a notch and choose a luxury item in that brand. Or, how about buying her something you know she won’t buy for herself? Some suggest that thongs are the most comfortable panties ever, but some women won’t even try them. Let her try them out on your dime. 

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 If you absolutely can’t find her sizes, you’ve got a few choices: guess and hope for the best, ask her outright, or buy something not quite as dependent on fit, like a silk nightgown or slinky robe.

 Of course you’d like something you want to see her in, but if it’s too gimmicky or plain uncomfortable she’ll might wear it for you, but it won’t leave the drawer more than a few times a year—and that's probably being generous. The key is to choose something that’ll let her know you think she’s special, but will also be comfortable for her. Many women are so hung up about body image that they don’t realize that, to the men who love them, they are hot, hot, hot. So if you bought her a blender for the holidays or her birthday, this is the time to go all out and show her how she looks in your eyes.